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My ex is distracting me in my marriage and I want it to all stop

Hi, I need advice. I’m married so far 3 yrs umdullah. I love him and he loves me. We have a daughter Allah has blessed me umdulahh. But theres this one person that sort of distracting me and feeling guilty about. Before my husband, I had a boyfriend yes. I knew it was haraam but at the same time my dad really was never home. neways he was a muslim and me too.

I’m Muslim, he’s Christian & we are in love, but do not know how to work the religious difference

I am a muslim girl and my boyfriend is a Christian.

We are madly in love, but we do not know how to work the religious difference and we really dont want to part because we are willing to take the relationship further.

What should I do?

Her father won’t accept me because we dated

I’m 19 and don’t know what to do. Well you see my girl friend’s father found out we were dating (my girlfriend is 18) and after he hit her all over with a stick. He called me to his house and talked me, he told me what we were doing is haraam (which is 100 percent).

Half a Virgin

He was my first boyfriend, and at this stage I was very naive, foolish, unknowledgable about the whole dating process, and was somewhat heavily influenced by his lifestyle. Due to my naivety, I am scarred by certain things he made me do, which i realised later are considered to be major sins in Islam. After research, I can say with deep repentance that I am half a virgin.

I am married but cannot forget my boyfriend

i have had boyfriend. We split about a year later because I wasnt ready to marry him and I knew my family wont like him anyway. 5 months later i met this Guy and I really like him he was a guy that my family would like, anyway interms of culture. We got to stage were we did what we shouldnt have done and he promised me that he would marry me. I hated myself for what happened, anyway the thoughts of us getting married near future made me feel it was as bad.

We had a physical relationship, are we still halal for each other?

My family engaged me with a girl. Both of us love each other. But we had physical relationship (zinaa) two times by mistake. May Allah forgive us and both of us promised God not to repeat this thing again. I want to ask that either both of us are Halal for each other after nikah?

Love and sex before marriage

She told me that she does NOT want to have sex before marriage. But would it be OK if we did as we both know we are going to marry each other? oh and the other thing is that we have not had sex, but we do kiss and have slept in the same bed but not done anything, is that also wrong in islam?