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I am losing my faith in Islam.

But ever since I moved away from the US, I lost interest in Islam. I don’t pray at all, I don’t read the Qura’an, I don’t wear scarf when my parents are not with me, and when I do have to wear it, I despise it and I find it uncomfortable. I’ve become uncomfortable with the thing that’s gave me most comfort since I was 12 years old. I don’t know what’s happened.

Daughter dating a white non-Muslim – what should we do?

She was with a boy who is not Muslim he is white. She says she wants a boyfriend and doesn’t care if he is Muslim or not. What should I do?

I think I might be married to two men

My heart cant rest every day I ask myself if that niikah with my ex-BF was valid and if so is my new nikkah with my husband valid? I don’t know what to do please make that clear for me.

In love with a Christian boy in a band.

I don’t know when and how should I tell him the truth about me- that I’m a muslim girl and I can’t be with him. My friend told me he has been having feelings for me for a long time too and he’s planning to ask me out. So, should I tell him the truth about me?

Facebook = Fitna, a vent

My mind irks as I read about this facebook. This is not a question. I want to share my thoughts and the things which I underwent.

Muslim girl loving a non Muslim guy causing family conflicts.

We still have physical contact knowing it’s wrong. He loves me a lot and is willing to become Muslim. He wants to marry me also. And I would do anything to marry him and spend the rest of my life with him peacefully.

Secretly married for 8 years; how to break this to parents and convince them?

I’m continuously insisting to my family, trying to get them to agree to that man, but they are not agreeing and are afraid of the society and surroundings where we live about what the people will say about it, like why a young girl would marry a married person with 2 kids etc

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, can we marry?

I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and we are both Muslims. I lost my virginity to him, we are both ashamed and have asked for forgiveness. We have decided that the right thing to do is marry each other. are we doing the right thing by getting engaged and getting married?

Is it right to get imposed and be self- shackled in the name of Allah the merciful?

My mother went furious and asked me in to pledge in the name of Allah paak that I would not even see him again. Under pressure, I was bound to pledge and now I am not in talking terms with him. The boy took so much care for me, I didn’t even explained him what did happen, because of the pledge.

Am I wrong for putting too much pressure on him to accept Islam?

For example, if he does agree on learning about Islam, he will do it because of me and if he does start practising Islam, he will do it because of me. I am afraid that down the line of year that he won’t do it for me any more.