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My parents are against my hijab, what should I do?

But I am confused here, they are saying that wearing hijab and not wearing hijab is the same thing as long as you are Muslim and practice Islam. They are like, there is no point of wearing it and it is not necessary in islam for women to wear hijab. It hurts me so much that all my family are against me and doesn’t like me anymore because I am wearing hijab. I don’t know what to do, I am so lost.

Confused about inner changes drawing me to purdah

Now for some time, I have been having thoughts of starting purdah. Like before, I used to go out comfortably in short sleeved kameez but now for some reason I just feel more comfortable in long sleeves. And now I want to cover my head, but the reason I’m not starting is I have doubts about my ability to sustain it.

I want to marry her, but confused about accepting her past

she told me that she had spend couple of years with a muslim boy as his Girl friend. Both did sex many times. Later when she studied Islam & comes to know that its not allowed in Islam, she stopped him. & did TAWBAH. But still she likes him too much, both are in touch as friend only (no more sex).

Getting married to someone from a different culture

Please tell me if I should go ahead with proposing for marriage through her parents, even though my parents right now won’t accept it? I have spent all my life praying to Allah to bless me with a Muslimah wife like her.

Can a 16 year old girl wear a t-shirt in front of her brother?

A brother and sister living in same room but sister wear t shirt in front of her 12 year old brother, both are true muslims and in normal case when she go out she do full hijab.

Practicing Islam secretly, parents caught me offering prayers

I know I shouldn’t be embarrassed of Islam, but my fears came true. My mother reported this to my father, and now both of them ignore me. They don’t talk to me much. Their anti-Islamic behaviour makes me hate them more and more.

Wearing Hijaab with confidence

I am not planning on stopping wearing a Hijaab, but I just feel that people don’t see me anymore. Any advice to help my mind stop having negative thoughts about this?

How can I avoid upsetting family while not engaging in haram?

I have explained to them that I will not be engaging in the traditions such as dancing. They will not accept this and say that they will make me dance on the night. I am afraid that a scene will be created if they do so. I have explained that even to be there amongst the music, dancing and men and women being together is haraam.

Could I take off my hijab when I am around my relatives?

The other issue is my family they like my boyfriend but do not want me to cover, they do not believe in it so I want to wear it but not around them. Could I wear hijab and just not wear it when with them?(I do not see them that much). or would that be bad and against religious or cultural beliefs of Muslims?

I’m constantly battling over whether to wear hijab or not

My question is on the topic of taking a Hijab. I am Allhamdulliah 5 times daily prayer person and I try my best to complete whats commanded to me but over the past couple of months I have been thinking alot about taking the Hijab. I think maybe now its being more pressured on me because most of my friends take it and me not taking it has been causing me so much distress