Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘honour’

Imprisoned by my family for cancelling my arranged wedding

They say that I have killed their pride and therefore I should die and deserve to be raped and killed because I am a whore… They pray for my death, they pray for my unborn children’s deaths and they pray I face suffering throughout life.

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Parents do not agree with love marriage?

I have fallen in love with a man my parents would disapprove of. We have not done anything inappropriate. I would like a halal relationship but my parents believe love marriages to be dishonourable.

Forced marriage and marital rape

I am going through physical, mental and sexual abuse every day. My parents ask me to compromise for family’s reputation and honour. But I feel like I’m dying slowly here…

I was forced into an engagement by blackmailing…

I don’t want this, I never agreed to it even and they simply forced me into it… Now engagement is done and I am in a bad condition and on medication in hospital due to heavy depression and stress.

My parents are racist and won’t let me marry who I want. Please help me.

I don’t know how to approach my parents, they will kill me, they will threaten me and tell me I have brought shame on the family.

Parents forcing in to marriage

Whenever I tell them I don’t want to marry him, my mother starts humiliating me… They care about their honor.

Please Help Me? Forced Into Marriage..

My brothers or family don’t listen to no one and my older brother is willing to kill me and go to prison for 30 years these are his own words so it makes it very hard for me to even do anything when I’m living in this fear 24/7 of being killed at any time by my own family.

In love – Marriage issues

I know if i dont marry him i will ruin my life and honor and if i do i will ruin my life too and honour too.

Feeling lost and worthless

What do I do? Do I tell his mother I was intimate with her son? That I cannot marry someone else now as it would mean problem for my family honor too? That her son loves me very much and I make him happy but he is afraid to tell her that?

I committed a great sin & feel dirty, hopeless & betrayed

I stumbled across this website in my desperation to find a solution to my problem and for some much needed advice. As I am typing this, I am realising how much stronger I have become in my personality, prior to this for the last two months I have been in agony, constantly crying, no sleep, and falling behind in all my duties. Just a little about myself, I am a 24 year old well educated girl, with a very successful career.I have had a fulfilling life, and come from a very caring and stable family. I always strive to better myself in my faith, often going on pilgrimage to makkah.