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What are my duties as a “separated” husband?

My wife has separated from me and demands divorce. What are my duties as a husband in the time being?

Husband’s Housekeeping Habits are Causing Problems

Assalamu-alaikum, I have been with my husband for 5 years now and alhamdulillah Allah has given me a wonderful husband and I am happy with most aspects of our relationship. However, he can be very inconsiderate and unappreciative at times. After work at times he won’t say salaams or even smile. (I understand that he is tired after work so I leave him). He will never ever helps out around the house which I don’t mind but he will leave a a lot of mess after himself. For example if he uses the bathroom the whole bathroom will be soaking wet.

My problem with my wife and her parents.

1 year has been passed of my marriage and God blessed me with His blessings and I have little cute baby girl a while back.

Question 1: I heard that after giving birth to a child, wife should have to stay at her mother’s home for about 40 to 45 days. What does Islam teach us in this regard.

Question 2: Regarding to above question, btw our families there wasn’t any agreement or any notification from my wifes parents that it would be done like that on birth occasion, but now they are forcing me to do that like to complete 45 days at her home.