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We have endured lifelong abuse from our father…

Also most painfully I have begun to feel resentment towards my mother may Allah forgive me… it pains me she turned a blind eye to our abuse as children, she tries now, but sometimes I feel it’s because I complain to her so much.

Destroyed my life…..Depressed

I’m 15 years old. I used to be a much better person before. Now my conscience has just died.

Double Standards with Muslim Men

I told him to go find someone with a big round butt like all the supermodels he keeps seeing on those stupid newspapers that he keeps reading so much. He says he would be glad to and why is he stuck with a “disgusting person like me”…

I need to know if it is a normal marriage

Trust me I do whatever he says, whenever he says. We dont fight like a normal couple because I don’t complain or misbehave with him, and I am being completely honest to you about it. I just can’t start an argument, because even our light discussions change his tone and anger him, so how can I fight? I am just too ‘scared of him’. Yup, that’s the word. I shouldn’t be, but I am.

My dilemma is an abusive but practicing Muslim husband

He has been beating me up much worse than my first husband. He slaps me on my face mostly, and would bruise me all over even when I was pregnant with his son, but he did not hit on my stomach. Once he slapped me on my ear so hard that my ear drum split, and I couldn’t hear for 10 days, after which it self-healed Alhumdulillah! He beats me and uses the filthiest swear words on me in front of our children. My boys 3 and 2 are now saying swear words and hitting me whenever I forbid them from something.