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Can a Muslim girl marry a Hindu man if he promises to convert after marriage for her sake?

If a Muslim girl and a Hindu guy got into a relationship and the guy promises her that he will convert to islam just because he has strong feelings for the girl. Is it okay to accept that the guy actually converted to Islam just because he has strong feelings for the girl and he’s willing to do anything just to marry her? While the girl prays to Allah in the same place where the family carries out all their hinduism culture, pooja (worship), not eating red meat etc?

We want to spend our lives together but I am not sure if I should trust him due to cultural, religious and age differences.

I have met and fallen in love with a Saudi student who is considerably younger than me (18years). He is from one of the most liberal cities in KSA and has told me that his family will eventually accept me. I can’t help but wonder if this is possible due to the age and cultural difference, and the fact that his student visa will be expiring in another year or so. I also worry that he may be married already and hiding it from me, so that he has someone to be with while he is in the states. Is there a way to find out if he is married and is there any hope for this relationship?

Dua (supplication) can change taqdeer (fate)?

What is the proof? I mean: how can I know something happened because my dua changed the course of a particular thing or was it really going to happen that way? Can someone show me a proof? And then they claim it has to be recited 1000-2000 times and the dua will change taqdeer. I do not believe that – because the Prophet’s (PBUH) hadtith and Quran to my humble knowledge do not give the number of times duas should be made because that would mean we are impatient and want Allah to fulfill our requests on demand like a drive through.

I will never trust another Muslima again

These experiences especially this last one has pushed me over the edge. Allah has tested my too many times and I have lost my faith that this can happen. I don’t pray anymore and I don’t care about anything anymore.

I am ashamed of asking for forgiveness again.

I am 24 and completed my study. I am married for four years. my husband is living in other country for his job.I live with my family, he communicates 2 to 3 times in a month in general, sometimes more. In these years he came once but ….

My husbands marital status with ex wife is eating my brain

He promised me he will divorce her once he’ll be out from jail, and I asked for it. Sometimes I feel like I am selfish and I had wronged myself in front of Allah for asking him to divorce his wife.

I told a lie, and cannot come clean, will Allah forgive me

Will Allah forgive me my sin? I told a lie to someone due to some reason I can’t explain reality..

I want to die as a true muslim

I feel lost and no longer want to marry another Muslim man, I wear niqaab and am now planning on removing that as it would be too hard as a single woman wearing it even though other women do. What shall I do? This is really affecting my iman and although I want to die as a true muslim, I have started to feel that I want to harm myself

I want to stay on the straight path

So i have always known that i have a bisexual tendency. But i am Muslim first and foremost, and i know the sin of homosexuality and premarital sexual experience, and i also know that my body is not truly mine. Alhumdulillah i am 23 years old and have maintained chastity,have steered clear of romantic involvment with girls and I have had guy friends and been EMOTIONALLY involved with guys..

He attempted suicide because I left him

Today he is the hospital in critical condition because he tried to commit suicide, because he claims he can’t live without me. Now I’m stuck and torn into pieces, my heart is shattered,…