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How do I get rid of these haram thoughts?

I encourage my husband to call any bad girl or prostitute as a sex game that it makes me turned on in bed. He never did it but I always encourage him to have a girlfriend or can have one night stand with anyone but not let him do nikah with anyone. My husband has told me he wants to get second wife but I hate this idea of sharing him and its making me hate him as I feel I am not good enough.

I want a Christian husband to let me raise my children as Muslims

I wish to marry a Christian man who will permit me to raise my children as Muslims.

I have been told I cannot do the nikah (get married) and I feel in a dilemma.