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Tag Archive for ‘Intimacy’

I can’t be intimate with my husband since we had our baby

It’s come to the point that when he touches or kisses me I feel like crying and pushing him away. I told him to let me go see a counsellor but he thinks it’s just in my head…

How to have long distance intimacy?

My wife is living in another country. It would take 1 year for her to come live with me. Whenever I speak to her on phone or skype I get sexual urges…

Social situations and age factor causing problems in our chances of marriage

I still cannot talk to my parents about our marriage. I can only do that after I am done with my studies and then I have a job. She being older than me makes the situation hard for us.

What should I do about talking to my future wife?

With the passage of time we have evolved a strong relationship and sometimes, some times we both cross the limits a little bit in terms intimacy over phone.

Is my husband normal?

We have been married for almost 1.5 years… Overall I am very frustrated and don’t know what to do.

Repenting for a haraam relationship – will I ever get forgiveness from Allah?

I told him we could be more than just friends but without doing anything… but I let him touch me. After a month or two I told myself I must stop or else I will see myself in Jahanum.

Getting over a divorce

Throughout the marriage he never told me what he was struggling with and it all came at once. It’s like divorce is nothing to him and he told me he has no feeling for me and everything we had was pretend.

Parents engaged me to one guy, but I love someone else

The mistake I made was to meet this guy I love. I don’t want to go into detail, but we sinned. No, we did NOT have sex, but yes we did sin. I spoke to him and told him if we are serious about marriage we must stop meeting up in the wrong way, and be sensible if we want Allah to bring us closer and to bless our future marriage insha’Allah.

Chronic health problems and marriage problems

Wth all this on my shoulders i dont know relly what to do about my relationship with my husband. At present his trying his best to help me by helping me by giving me the chance to rest, getting dinner ready etc though he has to say things like ufff , again, basically macking me feel like a burden. he is also trying to listen to me but still dosent know much about my illness and probebly won’t be able to learn as there’s no literature about cfs/ m.e. in his language . It’s not good enough for me to explain to him either as i don’t think he relly trust wait i say?! i feel he still dosent understand me and dosent know me and and are hearts/soul is disconnected.

I indulge in intimate kisses with my cousin, but it hurts me to think that my brother had once kissed her

So he told me yeah when she was 13 i kissed her suddenly on her lips but she got a little bit angry. When i heard this i got out of my senses then i asked my gf that is it true so she said yeah its true