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13 Year Old Daughter is Paranoid About Coronavirus

My 13 year old daughter is a good girl, but she is in a state of depression these days due to extreme fear of the Coronavirus.

Allah does not take me serious

If by my 25th birthday I won’t find relief I will find a way to end my life through the hand of someone else. I will abandon everyone I know and go to a desert where I will make my final statement.

When will the help of Allah come? I feel like a life sentenced prisoner and lonely…

I want to move closer to Allah, but I am drifting towards jannaham.

I want to get married but I have no family to help me

I’m scared that I would be treated with suspicion and without any family support I feel vulnerable in meeting anyone.

How to win over the solitude?

Time goes on and I remain alone. Every day my life gets harder and harder. I talk to myself. I talk to Allah; but not with my family, not with my friends, and not with my muslims brothers. There was a believer who helped me, but only when he has time so he stopped helping me. I tried to know more people. I go to mosque to pray even if it’s far away from my city. And yet, even there nobody wants to help me.

Absent Husband

My husband took a voluntary departure 3 years ago. I stayed with him in his country for over a year. When he thought he was about to get his visa he sent me home. My parents paid for all of the travel expenses. He did not get a visa. I have not seen him for almost 2 years. He does not work or make any effort to come up with money to bring me there. He seems only interested in the visa.

I have insomnia and terrible nightmares, why?

My parents are always worried about me as I am the youngest in my family and they are concerned because I have symptoms like senior citizens. Sometimes I feel helpless and useless to my family that I just lock myself in the room and try to remain in isolation…

Emotional Neglect Leads me to a Male Friend

I am married to my husband since 6 years against my family’s will. I have got three kids two boys and one girl. My husband gives me emotional torture, maximum 6 months in a year he does not talk to me and most of the time if he sees my face he gets angry.

Am I divorced?

My husband sent me divorce papers. 4 months have lapsed he has not provided me of children with any financial support, took my gold jewellery and money from bank all savings put injunction on saving and now wants to reconcile. I can’t trust him, but am I divorced as 4 months have lapsed?

Suicidal at 31

I hope you will respond to my question ya akhi, I’m a 31 yr old female and I dread turning 32. My life is so empty and pointless, I don’t think I want a point. I’d prefer to die than to carry on living. I’m isolating myself more and more. I don’t even spend time with my family, I just stay alone in my room all the time now. I am at a loss as to what I can do. Is it haram to ask for Allah to bring death oneself?

– Upset Sister