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Choosing between two people: Istikhara

I actually have attempted it by mentioning both names ….is this the correct way to do it?

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Is it okay to do Istikhara for Hajj or is that wrong?

I want to do Istikhara to decide if I should go or not but Hajj  is a Fard and I am not sure if it is appropriate to do Istikhara to decide on a Fard obligation.  What do you think?

Family not allowing my marriage because of caste

I want to marry a guy and we have been in a relationship for 7 years now. His family is also ready with the marriage proposal and have approached my family a number of times. But my family is not agreeing. The only reason they are giving is that the boy is not of our caste, although he is also a Muslim. We have tried convincing them but of no use.

Conflicted feelings regarding istikhara

I have a man who recently proposed to my family. When my parents agreed, he and I prayed istikhara to decide if this is truly the right decision. When he prayed, he received a negative feeling about moving forward, however, when I prayed, I had a positive feeling or no feelings at all. What is the ruling for conflicting feelings?

Help needed regarding future marriage

Will me waiting 5 years for him be healthy for us? How do i go about this in the islamic way?

Unclear result of isteqara

Our hearts are not able to accept to move apart even now.

Need immediate help on marriage

But now I feel like I should go back to her .. I don’t understand why I am hopping like this. But I feel I will never get a girl like this in life, she is perfect for me.

Istakhara answer please

I did istikhara for a marriage proposal. What is the meaning of this?

Istikhara question

If the womans isthikarah is a positive feeling but the man had a dream which was negative and in the dream the woman was marrying someone else what does this mean?

Can istikhara result change over time?

Please help me soon.