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I let my cousin lay over me when I was 8 years old

I let my cousin to lie over me for 2-3 mins, no intercourse, no kisses, I was not nude either. I really was unaware that this is an evil. I was just stupid didnt even know whether this is good or bad. I later gained that this is not major zina (sexual intercourse) as I was an insane.

Asking for forgiveness

I have been married for 3yrs now and previously I was going out with my boyfriend. We constantly had sex and couldnt resist each other.

Now that I am married, I cant get him out of my head and we do regular see each other aswell. When we see each other now we do kiss but thats about it.

I have stopped seeing him now as I feel so guilty and dirty.

Waiting for a proposal but not sure if it will come

Dear brothers and sisters in Islam….

Please help me. I am in a state of turmoil, very much confused. I am 28years old and I have never been in any relationship. I have always been proud of that fact. I have never held a mans hand, been on a date and definitely never been kissed. I have always wanted to have my husband to be the first in everything as pertained in Islam.

I was a homosexual, and I still have weird thoughts and flashbacks. HELP!

She is the first and the only girl I ever met that made me think that I might like her more than a friend. I always treated her with love and care, that made her close to me. She shared her secrets with me, there was a time when she went through alot in her family and she was almost devestated and now she admits out loud that if havent been there for her she wouldnt have made it. So we are two best friends who look out for each other. But the trouble begins here. I felt like i loved her more than a friend.

Love and sex before marriage

She told me that she does NOT want to have sex before marriage. But would it be OK if we did as we both know we are going to marry each other? oh and the other thing is that we have not had sex, but we do kiss and have slept in the same bed but not done anything, is that also wrong in islam?

Married men being kissed and hugged by other women

My husband is routinely kissed on the cheek and hugged in a friendly manner by other women.

Is this act ok, as it is commonly seen here in western culture?

Christian woman kissed by married muslim man

Please help me figure this out. I have been friendly with a married but separated muslim man for a short time. We talk & usually its only a short chat. We met for lunch and he had mentioned that he has asked for divorce in the past but due to his faith he has not pursued it. He has said he would if he found the right woman to remarry. When parting, he leaned my way & kissed me square on – quite unexpectedly. I am now very confused about his intentions.