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Coping after divorce

I wanted to continue working on the marriage so it’s really difficult for me to accept it ended, despite how bad it was and how bad it got, I still wanted to try my best.

No sex for two years, is our marriage valid?

Since our daughter was born my husband says he is too ashamed to have sexual relations with me. Is our marriage still valid?

My husband will not kiss me

My husband and I have been married a year and a half but he never wants to kiss me.

Is my husband normal?

We have been married for almost 1.5 years… Overall I am very frustrated and don’t know what to do.

He loves me but does not want to have any sexual relationship with me

He says he loves me and he cares about me… But he never wants to have sex with me… I tried everything…

Sexually frustrated

After not having sex for a year during the pregnancy, I sat with my wife and explained that I cannot continue like this. Either our marriage will fall apart, or I would be taking a second wife as soon as the opportunity arise.

My husband has a low sexual drive.

I don’t understand his low sex drive. I did ask him if he has any problems or if it something about me, and he says no. He turns me away many times when I try to get intimate with him, which makes me feel upset and frustrated. We both work and we both get stressed from work, but I try as hard as possible to make him satisfied- but I don’t get the same in return.

We’re married but don’t live together and he doesn’t take care of me

The problem is that since we don’t live together and are not intimate he feels no responsibilities towards me. So he doesn’t take care of me, doesn’t take care of my bills, he doesn’t even offer anything.

We are married, but my husband refrains from sex

we have both never had sex before, I thought that once it is halal for a Muslim person, why would he/she wait? We already have to wait so long until marriage to have sex. (Makes me wonder if he is gay or something.)

How to get rid of husbands masturbation?

I am very tensed don’t know how far I can tolerate this pressure,i have lost my self esteem, I am powerless to get rid of this habit of his, what hurts me most is that he has lost that ehsase gunnah in his hiras for dunya, please help what should i Do to get peace of mind, sometimes I think he is spoiling hisQabar not mine but I can’t stop thinking that his addiction is going to kill our marriage or lead to his extramarital affairs if he has so hots for white or Asian women