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Do I divorce him or not?

I don’t have choice than to work abroad. Being away from him, I feel like I’m free. I wanted to divorce him but at the same time I don’t want to hurt him and my kids.

Long Distance Marriage? Confused and Lost

Please can somone tell me how we can make it work. We want to get married as soon as we can he is already 22 and we dont want haram to happen between us.

Husband does not want contact with me or our daughter

Do I have a chance that he will ever change? Or should I proceed with separation or divorce?

How to have long distance intimacy?

My wife is living in another country. It would take 1 year for her to come live with me. Whenever I speak to her on phone or skype I get sexual urges…

Can I get khula?

We had no love in our relationship. I’ve asked for talaq but he doesn’t want to give it.

My husband cheats on me repeatedly

Will he ever change? Or I have to just go on dragging my life forgiving him with a stone on my heart… I don’t know what to do…

No rukhsati in sight, now my friend is on my mind

I had a friend. He was very honest and he loved me a lot before my nikah, and he still does. I don’t have any contact with him, but because of my husband I sarted missing him and I don’t know what to do now.

Six months with no contact from husband abroad

My mother decided the situation was getting worse and these people were liars because their son was unable to call me to the UK, and now they only want to control me. She thought that after quiting my job I will be totally helpless, on the mercy of my mother in law. So my mother decided not to send me to my in laws. My husband stopped calling me. Meanwhile, my scholarship for Germany got finalized.

Did he marry me so I can serve his mother? Why am I being treated this way?

Does he not wish me to come to his country? Did his mother marry him so I can serve her? I don’t want to spend a life like this.

Talaaq given twice before rukhsati – is iddah necessary?

Before rukhsati my husband has given me two times talaaq over the telephone in anger. Is iddah necessary on me? And if he wants me back what should he do?