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Difficulty in searching for pious spouse in Pakistan

What I have observe is piousness is not a criteria in Pakistan and often women, who have proposals, lie about many things and don’t give preference to the Deen of the proposal.

Problems getting second marriage after khuula

I don’t want to lose hope but circumstances are forcing me to think like that.

Is this proposal for nikah halal valid?

He proposed marriage, I accept, thinking would be a second wife, but he answered that in his country polygamy is not permitted, asked me to be his nikah halal, wants to keep it a secret.

Don’t know how to approach getting married

I know that my fate is already written by Allah swt, and I know I need to put my faith and trust in Him. However I also feel like I need to do something about it as it won’t just land in my lap.

Proposal confusion – what should I do?

My parents want to go ahead and say this is the last option I have… but I can’t seem to find a solid reason to accept him as a husband. I know it is Allah who knows everything and I should eave everything to him, but I have to give an answer.

Choosing the right spouse… Am I being too fussy?

How important is physical appearance? I’m not attracted to him but at the same time I do not want to lose a good proposal.

My mum wants to start looking for a husband for me…

I wouldn’t have a problem with this however I am already interested in someone. He’s pious, he has a good character and is studying to become an aalim.