Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Husband has thrown me out and demands divorce

I had my nikkah last year in Ramzan in Pakistan. My husband moved to the US and I stayed in Pakistan. In July 2010 I had my rukhsati and came to the US. After a month and a half, my husband found out that I had a relationship 2 years before my nikkah when I was in high school.

Just found out my husband-to-be has a child

I am engaged to a Muslim man since January 2010. We have know each other for 1.5 years. I am a Christian woman. I just found out he has a 5 month old baby that he never told me about.

I’m in love with someone but lost him due to my lying & insecurities

I have been with someone the past year. overall i was not good to them. i lied to them a massive amount. i have come to realise i have a problem with lying. i don’t know if i’m a compulsive liar or why i do it but i lie. he was the first person i actually admit all my faults and flaws to, this is the second time i’m openly admitting that yes maybe i’m a compulsive liar. and it’s very hard and sad and hurtful for me to say it. i am but i want to change.

Need advice in disciplining my 11 year old daughter

My 11 year old daughter is a wonderful kid. But this past week she has stunned me by lying about school detention and today I found my expensive perfume was missing. I went to the school and asked her about it, and she admitted to me that she took it and gave it to her friend. I was so disappointed and heart broken that she has done these decieving things.

His first wife has discovered our secret marriage and is asking for a divorce

I am the second wife of a Muslim man, I am also Muslim, ours was a love marriage. Our marriage was kept secret from his first wife and his parents. However, recently his first wife came to know about me and she now wants to divorce him.

My husband of almost six years has had an affair with an American woman

My husband of almost six years has had an affair with an American woman. He denies that he has done anything wrong. He prays and fasts, but for a time he stopped attending Majid. I assume it was because he was seeing this lady.

I am not sure what to do at this point. I ask for strength everyday to take the high road at all times no matter what unpleasant situations I face. I have been able to do just this so far. I feel no jealousy only compassion and strength but worry my resolve will not last long. I truly want the best for my husband. If he cannot love me I would prefer he compassionately divorce me.

Imaginary friend (female companion) and lies

I am a muslim brother who has an imaginary female companion. I am over 15 but under 20 years of age. She is the same age as me.

She offers me comfort when I need it most, she makes me feel loved as a person. She is Islamic. She prays and does nafl prayers, she puts on hijab. She is imaginary. She makes me feel fulfilled, but she makes me also feel like a sinner.

She is my ideal companion. We have arguments but we always make up. She is amazing looking. She loves me more than anything. I feel like I love her even though she doesn’t exist.

My husband wants me to drink and do drugs

I am 27 years old and married to my husband for two years. We are the same age. We have two children. When my husband and when we met I lied to him and told him that I was a virgin and had never drank alcohol or done drugs. I lied because I did not want him to judge me for my past because by that point I had truely changed and wanted to live an Islamic life free of disgusting sins.