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Married, pregnant and abandoned by my husband

I know suicide is haram but what should I do, I have this SNAKE baby. I can’t sleep, eat, am a dead body walking around. I dont want to keep this baby, for it has same blood as him. I need answers. Why did this happen, after all we did for him. His name is S.S. from Brooklyn New York. Why did he do this to me? Why did he use me? Ya Allah why? Why? I can’t move on. I can’t.

Cannot return the Haq Mahr to ex-wife

I was married for a period of 2 years. Out of the blue when I was not expecting my wife left me to America with her father. I tried contacting her but there was no reply. I filed for divorce, and eventually I got it even though she did not sign the paperwork. At the time I wrote her a letter to send her haq maher (her dowry – some jewelry) to her, as she left it behind. but she did not reply. I asked her to come and collect it from my home.