Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Does true love start after nikah?

I want to get married to my cousin because mashaALLAH he is great and by saying no I do not want to regret in the future. So I said yes but the only thing holding me back now is my love and my dreams I had with the guy I love.

Confused about marriage

I don’t know what to do or how to change how I’m feeling. I know I willingly agreed to marry him but I’ve been feeling so depressed lately and I don’t know what to do about it.

Can I marry my cousin’s daughter?

I love the taqwa in her, that’s the reason I want to marry her. Can I marry her? If yes, please give me a daleel (proof) from any hadees or Quran.

Shy and Afraid

I met a decent, pious Muslim brother who turned out to be my cousin. He is very smart, kind, generous and humble. I got to know him passively because he used to visit my parents and talk to them. Then he graduated and moved away so he no longer comes to visit, and I find myself missing him (Is that wrong?) and wishing that he would come sometimes.

Is he my milk cousin or not?

Is he forbidden since my mother breastfed him when he was small?

I’ve loved my cousin since childhood.

I told my mum and she’s really angry and upset. She says I should forget him. I really don’t like her being upset but I’m the only daughter, and I don’t want him harming himself either. I really need advice on what I should do. All I want is for God to take me to him, this way my mum won’t worry.

I can’t make a decision about this proposal

A few months back I was asked by my sister how I would feel about getting engaged to the middle son of my aunt, Z. At first I was angry at the fact that how could my family think of such a thing at the same time bringing us up together so my reaction was a No, I was really upset at that time.