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I’m taking my daughters and leaving my husband….for good?

He loses his temper and hits me… I’m ready to pack up my girls and go.


Married and divorced all in 3 years

I need to be happy but I don’t know how to do so.

I do not want to go to Jannah anymore because I am discouraged and feel guilty

“None of you believes till he loves a brother for himself”. What if you do not feel that way about a Muslim?

Husband’s lies are mental abuse

He lied about his previous wives and children. I am so upset and mad. I don’t know how to stop thinking about it.

Considering ending my marriage…

My dilemma is whether I should leave my husband for his mental abuse. I feel that this is not a healthy relationship.

Living with abusive mother for 25 years

As-Salamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatuallahu Wa Barakatuh,  For the past 25 years I’ve been living in a household that was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. My mother -May Allah SWT reward her- has been through a lot, but with that being said she has done a lot to me that damaged me pretty bad. I was always […]

Physical, emotional and financial abuse… Is this what an Islamic marriage is meant to be like???

I wanted to learn more about Islam by his example… I was held prisoner in his parent’s home. He punched and kicked me everywhere, saying he would make sure I never conceive a baby. It took weeks for my bruises to heal and I have permanent scarring on my eye.

Broken and depressed

I’m 19 years old and I have gone through emotional, physical and sexual abuse. My sexual abuse staryed at the age of 10. My parents had seperated and my mother took us to pakistan, we were there for 3 months. During the last month and a half my mother’s brother started to abuse me although I kept quiet at first.

I am confused over my divorce

I am 24 years old and have a 2 year and 7 months old daughter. My husband was a catholic but converted himself to islam to marry me. Though my family was against our marriage later they were fine with it. three months after marriage I found out that he was a drug addict. He never could do a job for more than few weeks and he would mentally torture me asking for money. I loved him truly and honestly and went through a lot of humiliation and pain because of his addiction.

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, but my father has threatened to kill me if I choose my own husband.

I would like to begin this query by asking Almighty Allah to forgive me for all that I have done. In some way I know I may not have done the right thing but I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore. I live in a family where, for me it has been a nightmare. I know Islam tells you to respect your parents but what my family has done with me I cannot respect my parents.