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Losing hope whilst going through a divorce
I pray that He will give me something better to replace what I have lost, but in this midst of sadness I cannot see through the clouds. I am afraid that it is not in my qadr to marry and have children and a family of my own. I am in my 30’s and I suspect that I have lost that chance, and this is the one thing in life which my heart desires.
I want to give up; this pain is too much
I have fallen in love with a non-Muslim man who is Sikh. Both of us have strong feelings for each other, but I know this is also haram so we backed off. But if someone can treat you right, respect you and is willing to look after you your whole life, doesn’t that mean anything? I have never trusted a man in my life apart from him.
Prayer making my knees hurt
I don’t want to stop praying, because of my knees, but I am so distressed about it. My confidence is getting lower and lower. I hate the thought of always thinking about the appearance if my knees, but it truly matters to me.
He has left me because I don’t speak the language his mother understands
I know he will not change his decision and that she is the one he wants and no matter how much I beg him and want to be with him he will not be with me because he wants someone who can speak to his mother in his native language. This hurt me because I have been trying my best to learn his language but it can not happen over night.
How will my broken heart heal again?
I recently went through a divorce and going through pain, and I know there are many people whom have broken hearts whether through a separation, divorce or lost someone in life.
I feel like I’ve lost everything and I don’t know what to do.
I don’t know where to start, but I just need some advice. What to do if your parent’s won’t accept the guy that you want to marry because of different race, culture? But we’re both muslims, shouldn’t that be the most important thing? To be fair my mum did talk to him, but it still doesn’t work. I’m tired of praying it will work out, I left everything in Allah’s hands but ya Allah if he’s not the one for me, why is it impossible to stop thinking of him?
Will Allah be happy with us for our sacrifice?
I like to know that, whether Allah will be happy for our sacrifice. I love a girl and she loves me too. WE prayed to Allah more then a year and also did lots of umrah and also prayed in the place of Dua in Kaaba. She said her wish to her parent and said she asked allah only for him and allah knows her heart. But father does not accept it because of status and society.
Once again broken so much
I have only one brother and he is just 4 years old. He had open heart surgery when he was born and recently the doctor told us that he needs to have another open heart surgery soon. I am so broken because I don’t want to go through the whole process all over again.
Divorced and Unhappy after Sincere Supplication
What is troubling me is the difference between the theory of good will that is espoused and the reality within the community. In regards to connection with Allah, it appears that anyone who turns to Allah with a pure heart on the matter of marriage will be rewarded with a suitable husband……
Am I wrong for leaving my husband who abused me emotional and verbally for ten years?
As Salaamu Walaikum, I was in a very emotional and verbally abusive marriage for ten years. I have four beautiful children and Allah knows I tried to stay and deal, but on October 11 I just couldn’t take it any longer. I left and am now in a shelter with my children. He is constantly calling my sister and mother to relay messages to me of how unislamic I am behaving by leaving.
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