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Parents have never been good to us;I feel suffocated and stessed at home

Throughout our entire lives each of us amongst siblings, have suffered on his/her own part behind our parents’ behavior and wrong decisions+rigid attitude towards us. This has been happening with us since childhood and now that we’re all mature, things have gotten even worse.

My mother says to keep little contact with a friend who has separated from her husband?

Anyway, what I’m trying to say is, why is my mum insulting my friend even though she is Masha’Allah handling her situation much better than my mum handled her own all those years ago? Yes, I know my mother is worried about me but she never gives me any credit, Alhamdulillah I have always managed to stay away from guys romantically even though I studied with them at school, college and university while all my friends were dating and I wasn’t Alhamdulillah!

Need your suggestion/Opinion about my Bro’s Love.

Assalamu Alaikkum… First of all, Thank you very much for this wonderful forum.  I have joined this forum recently and I have been watching this forum on a regular basis. It is really helping me to understand my level of Deen and How hard should I live my life to say that I am a […]

My parents hate me for converting to Islam; please help

I am 16 and I used to party and drink and not do well in school I was even close to having sex but I am so happy I never did that. I felt lost and alone. About 9 months ago I had to do research for school on Islam. After reading about it i felt like my heart open end up.

My father don’t agree to my marriage to the guy I like because he is African.

I have started to grow close to a man who is African. I never thought I would be with an African man before, as being Asian myself its not often the norm. I dont agree with my dad; I feel he’s judgemental and shallow and he even admits to me in his own words that its all about how people see outside not whats inside. I had no intention of a relationship whatsoever and neither did he but its just that as friends we have started to grow closer and I have realised how much of a nice person he is and how well we get along.