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I can’t stop hating my father for what he put me through; please help.

i acquired my post graduation degree and i though i have moved on with my kids but i still feel miserable about it. i cant erase these nasty episodes from my head. i am very polite to both my parents and i love my mum to death but i still cant stand the.sight of my dad and although i don’t show it, Allah (swt) knows what i conceal.

Just want to be a normal man & what is the actual meaning of Eid-ul-Adha?

It may be right or wrong I don’t know, our destiny is written and everything happens on that time. But its enough for me try to make happy others and I also know that this thing is come from Allah SWT. Hence I don’t do anything for any one to be happy. And I want only I have to be happy like a small baby, when he wants chocolate and when he get then he would be happy and if he never get then he cry and few days later he wants something else and when he got this then happy otherwise tense not thing about past what he did not get (Chocolate).

I Love and Hate him, I Feel Lost

At the very first day when i saw him talking to his family in a nice warm greeting. jolly and happy I became very jealouse and heart broken. I was thinking Why was he not being like that with me? Why did he not sit and talk to me like he is with his family? But I couldn’t help it. I did not know where to start :(.

Is my Nikkah valid or do I need to do it again?

After 2 more months my mum wasn’t happy and decided to get us married with proper Nikkah (I still stuffed up by forcing her to have intercourse during her period).

My parents forced me to marry my cousin, I don’t like him and want divorce

I was forced to marry my husband 15 years ago by my parents but I never liked him even though I have 2 daughters from him. I have told my parents several times but they don’t agree and support my decision to divorce my husband. Also, my husband doesn’t want to divorce me and whenever I raise the issue, he goes crying to my parents who threaten to disown me if I get divorced.