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Being forced into marriage, but I love someone else

I got engaged and I only told that one friend who made me get into the relationship with my true love. I hate the guy I got engaged to; I never talked to him and I never thought this would happen. I never had and never will have any feelings for him because I love someone else and that someone else is not aware of all this.

My father tortures my mother, my brother disrespects them and speaks ill about Islam

My parents fight a lot, my dad has a bad tongue and swears a lot, he uses words for my mother which are too disgusting to be heard and he beats her in a very in-human way, like he treats her like an animal. On the other side, my brother, who is an educated person has a very bad behavior towards me and my parents. On the other side, my brother, who is an educated person has a very bad behavior towards me and my parents. On the other side, my brother, who is an educated person has a very bad behavior towards me and my parents. My brother has a very bad attitude towards me and my parents. Hes going far away from Allah and Islam

Fed up with being married

i cant stand all this haraam stuff..i come from a very religious background…i pray all the five salah..fast..pay zakat…why me?…i didnt say anything that time…i left it…then we had a big fight..he abused me..i locked him out..he hit me…my life was shattered.

I am scared of losing him, I love him a lot but he is not happy with me

Whenever he talks to me its always in a yelling manner. he never wants to share anything, says its his private life and i have no right to ask about it. I have been on depression medication because of him and have tried to take my life. i am scared of losing him, i love him a lot bt he is not happy with me.

How do I make him leave me alone?

I wasn’t born and raised into an Islamic family. For the past several months I have been reading about Islam and trying to learn Surahs and Arabic. It’s going at a very slow rate but InshAllah I will get there. The reason I am here today writing this is because I need guidance and help. I’ve tried to deal with this myself but it has only gotten worse and more dangerous.

Abusive Brother, Forced Engagment and Sexual Molestation

I grew up and it got much more serious. He’s given me black and blue eyes and made me bleed and very much hurt me even though I’ve always listened to him. If I didn’t listen to one word of his, then I would be done and beaten and my parents would do nothing about it and my mom would say: “maybe you should listen and do what he says, your dad will be home, you can tell him.”

He is violent and blame it on me.

I have been married to my husband for 5 years and have two little girls with him. From the start he has been lying to me about things to talk very disrespectful to me..

Her husband beats her badly, she needs strength to take Khula

We need some serious advice, so she can find the strength to make the right decision and not feel weakened by the cry of her children, when ever he calls or when he msg’s her – and help her to be proactive and doing something about her Khula. We feel that she should leave him, even with four children because the children and her, do not deserve a man like that. We are trying to tell her “that think, if something had gone wrong under the fist beating. IF she become partially paralyzed … or what if she had died under that severe beating.

My husband has tried to suffocate me with a pillow.

Assalamalaikum

I am a 30 year lady and been married for 3 years.
Let me add that I got married to a muslim man of my choice who is younger than me 2 years. Initially my parents objected to his marriage when they found out that he use to drink alcohol. But since i knew or at least I thought he had stopped drinking, i begged my parents to let me marry him.

We’re newlyweds but six months later, we are physically fighting

I’m 18, and have been married for about 6 months. I knew him before we got married though and he was so charming with a beautiful love that I miss so much. But after we got married, things changed dramatically. We fought alot, so much about him annoyed me, and now he chokes me.