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Marriage and sex life problems
[This post is about sexual problems within marriage. Please observe Islamic limits and be aware that the topic is sensitive.]
Double Standards with Muslim Men
I told him to go find someone with a big round butt like all the supermodels he keeps seeing on those stupid newspapers that he keeps reading so much. He says he would be glad to and why is he stuck with a “disgusting person like me”…
How to handle husband watching pornography?
I got to see in his smartphone that he has been watching porn and nude videos of women and hiding it from me. It’s been happening for quite a long time. After seeing this I was shattered, heart-broken and feeling very much depressed. I used to trust him so much, and I had great faith in him.
I can’t control myself
I watch porn, astaghfirullah, although I know its haram. I make tawba after every time, but I still do it.
My sexual urges are strong from past molestation
The sexual urges I felt at puberty could not be controlled and I came to know how we can watch porn on YouTube. I soon started watching dirty videos, masturbating, repenting and doing the same cycle all over again. I used to do it on and off, and no matter how hard I tried I always end up doing it and then feeling super guilt shortly after.
I’ve been having sex with my cousin since we were young
With time we stated to have sexual intercourse when we came back from school (we shared a room) . So after doing our work, we had intense sexual intercourse. It’s been three years now that we have daily sex, and no one knows.
Everything started going wrong after I got a boyfriend
After that day he began to change drastically. He started to attack things I loved (I am a girly girl and I love makeup and clothes and those things). He began to take those away and said I can’t wear makeup anymore, and I can’t wear what I want. I didn’t dress inappropriately as my parents are pretty religious, but he would attack everything. I was really mad at first, but I dealt with it. As soon as he saw that I could deal with it, he gave me even more rules.
I need to marry because of fitna, but my parents won’t understand.
Why am I having this test? I cannot control myself anymore. I stop watching porno for a week, then in a day I watch more than 10 times until I feel so tired and dirty. I don’t know what to do. I pray, but it seems Allah does not accept my prayers. I always ask Him to make me forget about the porno, but nothing happens. From the other side, something inside my head tells me: Watching porno is better than you losing your virginity.
I think my husband is cheating on me, what should I do?
I had an email account that he was talking to girls about his sexual desire and dreams. I have noticed he watches a lot of porn and tells me there is nothing wrong with that. So now a lot of things go in my mind like, did he use an escort service, does he do it online on porn sites, and a lot of other stuff. Of course he denies it all and swears that he has done nothing wrong.
Porn and masturbation have made me lose confidence
Whenever I am angry, I feel lust, lonely and nobody is there for me. I have negative thinking that many people are committing a greater sins than I do and Allah will forgive me even after I commit it. I masturbate to stop those urges, but now I am fed up by my behavior; I just can’t live like this.
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