Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Is doing Nikkah with same person twice allowed in Islam?

I have decided to marry my boyfriend first without my parents knowing anything about it and then marry the same guy again later, with their consent. I want to know if I can do so, because I know that keeping a relationship would lead to committing a lot of sins. We really love each other and want to spend all our life together.

Please help me, I can’t live without him

I can’t live without him and can’t even believe that Allah is doing this to me. Everything was perfect but now I don’t know. Allah always gave me more than what I wanted but this time he is giving me hope and than again breaking it. I am so hurt that I sometime decide to not think of Allah but what can I do I can’t stop trusting Allah and nor can I stop loving him. I have been waiting to solve this for a longtime.

Muslim man and a Christian woman; Is it possible?

Everyone that is important to us are against us but we are still strong in love and still want to be together. I’m looking out for our happiness but its hard because all odds are against us. I have been taking time out to learn more about Islam so that I can be more familiar with it. What should we do?

My parents dont like my boyfriend because he’s not good looking.

I feel that if I reject him because of his looks or his eye problem then Allah will never forgive me and he will bring it to me in future. I believe in karma so I am scared but now I am very upset; I want fight for my love but I want to respect my parents too.

Can I marry her?

Can I marry a woman who I had intercourse before marriage?

We both want to get married but his parents don’t agree.

I need someone to guide me; I want this guy. I am ashamed of my sins and I want his parents to come to my house and don’t humiliate my family but ask my hand with respect. We want this world and hereafter, I know I am asking alot from ALLAH.

Her parents don’t like me and we want to marry in secret

I love a girl and she loves me too. We want to get married. One of her sister and one of her brother support us but her parents do not. We fear that we may not be able to control our feelings and get physical but we don’t want to commit any sins. So, we want to get married. We want this to do secretly. What should we do?

Should I Divorce my Husband because he won’t leave the past alone?

He has told me that he’s going to make sure living with him isn’t easy, because he “won’t be fooled again,” and also that I will be obligated to maintain myself financially. He won’t trust me until I have gone through med school with him (though he’s not anywhere near going himself)….or should I divorce him and stay in my own home, continue on my path and eventually remarry?

I feel guilty for commiting sins but I want to become good Muslimah again. Please help.

I want be a good Muslimah and I want to stop this haram relationship. I want be happy again; I can’t sleep at night time; I keep thinking about him and why I did what I did? I hope Allah will forgives me; please help me and give me your best advices.

Should he cut off ties with his childhood hurtful friends for me?

Unfortunately, Foogle and his friends were suspicious that Frodo had a love interest and asked him if he was talking to me. He denied it every time. Eventually they found out in July that I was speaking to Frodo through hacking his MSN chats (with me) and keylogging his Facebook login and email. When my sister pretended to be me, his friend swore at me and said “don’t go around posting my address you b****.” They started saying rubbish like “What the f*** do you know about the Quran” and talking rudely about circumcision etc my brother said they said much more WORSE things and he has been very concerned about the type of person Frodo could be if his friends could behave like this.