Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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We want to be together but his parents won’t allow it due to cultural differences

Recently, he spoke with his mother in hopes of getting her support to ask for my hand. She once again refused, stating that I do not speak their language and that she will not support us and she will cease contact with him if he chooses to marry me.

His parents refuse me because of different caste; please help

we both are Sunni Muslims but he belongs to a high caste then mine and that is the issue. he has already talked about us to his parents they are fine with me and family but only there problem is my caste.

Feeling guilty for him for being in a relationship with me outside marriage

I just don’t know what to think of this! I love him and I want to marry him, I know he loves me and wants to marry me, but why am I feeling guilty about him going against what he has believed in for so long? I am going to speak to him today about this, I just wanted to have an opinion outside the box.

Someone has done black magic to separate my boyfriend and I.

Someone has done black magic to my boyfriend to seperate our relationship and from that day onwards he started hating and avoiding me. Plzzzz give me a strong dua so that i can get him back plzzzzz help me plzzzz….

Can’t decide whether to marry her or not as she said she’s not virgin.

i m a faithful and serious guy never thought of having sex before marriage…. until one day she told me that shes not a virgin and said i know i had hurt you should have told you before etc….am dyinG right now with million thouhhts in my mind…. not able to decide something..she asked me to leave her as she is not worth it..but i m not able to decide.

His father doesn’t accept me

I don’t want to feel like that but I do and I can’t help it. I know that wives are easy to find and family can’t be replaced but still doesn’t hurt less for knowing it.
Please give me your wise advice, this is making ill and I am Suffering too much.
Thank you for your time.

I want to convert to Islam and marry my Muslim girlfriend

I want know your thoughts are and advice on what I should be doing now? We’re both 17 and currently in college and we will be going to University hopefully. I also genuinely want to revert to Islam to be a good Muslim and not just to get married. I’ve been intrested in Islam since the start of 2011 so I also want to know how I should feel when I think I’m ready to revert.

I fear I have lost myself here and hereafter

i want to hug her so that i can feel a bit relieved..i fear grave,i fear standing infront of allah.ifear allahh..i fear prophet mohammad saw hadis that sins decrease your rizq..im going nowhere..please help me iwant to offer my missed salah..iwant to perform my missed fasts and i want to be a good muslim..ifear my future..

Sex Before Marriage in Islam

I have been seeing a guy for a few months and his mom knows. We love each other very much, dare I say we’re attached; we have had sex once but we plan to get married insha’allah. Is this still haraam?

I love her and want to marry her but she is engaged, please help

I love someone but she likes me a lot. She can’t love me because she is engaged but I can’t live without her. I’ve some family problems like my father and mom got divorced when I was kid but she said she doesn’t care about these things. She likes me a lot and she talks with me a lot but she always keep saying she can’t marry me and she can’t be my life partner.