Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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A big mess

I was drunk. I cheated on my man. I’m so angry at myself.

Life or death; miserable yet trying to live for my kids.

I had made istikhara and took my step upon it to leave, but my parents made me come back. I am miserable in this relationship, and for my husband to change things I simply have to ask for divorce which he refuses. I am very lost and have lost hope in life. I just keep wishing that somehow my kids and I would disappear. I don’t know for how long I can endure this.

Finding it hard to forget and move on the early years of our marriage

i really feel bad and im really sorry for all the people ive hurt intentionally and unintentionally. please can anyone give me any good advice on how i can make my husband be more supportive and loving for the sake of our dunya, graves and for the sake of our akhira????

Please help: My marriage is about to come to an end

However, when I and my parents discussed this with my in-laws, my father in law simply said and I quote “Over my dead body” and “I can ask my son to divorce your daughter any time”… Fearing for my relationship,

Should I give her more time or grant her divorce as per her wish?

I have learned that my wife has been abusing my mother and complaining about every little mistake of mine with full and negative support from her mother for past one year. I didn’t believe what I was reading, few things which i have done for my wife was actually instructed by her mother (ex: buying a diamond ring on our wedding anniversary, limit sending money to my widow mother).

Want brother-in-law to move out so rest of us don’t suffer but husband doesn’t understand

Please give some advice, we were a happy family before all this happened now I am just reduced to tears, my husband shouts at me when there is not enough food, when I don’t take child to bed because I can’t because his brother is always hovering around all the time!