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Communication limits between my husband and ex-wife; am I over-reacting?

I know I am sinning a lot by checking his mobile, and it makes me feel worse. Recently, the emails from ex-wife increased , and she tells that the divorce is a test for her, also she advises that my husband needs to rest well, sleep/eat well, etc.. All the emails show that she misses and loves him and gives a lot of instructions and advices.

Regretful and unfortunate father; seeking advice in the light of Quran and Sunnah

Basically she want me to abandoned my 3 month old daughter forever. She broke all the relation with all the Muslim friends. I feel very offended when some of my close friends told me that I just leave this child and carry own my life for sake of my family and future.

My Husband is unemployed and I am feeling less loving towards him

I am now feeling less loving towards him although he still shows me affection. I am starting to not care and I don’t feel like sharing my money anymore or paying anymore bills or buying food. I want to buy something nice for my daughter now. I am trying to be patient. I am trying so hard to be patient.

Should I stop my daughter to be around my Ex’s ex wife?

What rights does the father have over our daughter having her around this lady? Am I wrong if I don’t consider this lady as my sister in Islam due to her wanting the father of my child to leave his parental duties to be with her and their son just because I am in the picture?

I broke up with my boyfriend and can’t move on; please help me

Its easy saying just forget everything and you will be happy but that doesn’t make any change. I have tried billions of times not thinking about him but what ends is him on my mind
Please help me I want to move on:'(.

My husband treats me very badly; what should I do?

My husband pray and he fears Allah, but sometimes he is hurting me so much with his words. I am pregnant and when I was pregnant 6 months he beat me with his belt very badly, that I had bruises for month.

Remarrying but no divorce papers from previous marriage

She wants to remarry now but ex husband won’t produce taliq papers. He has married again after divorcing my friend, and divorced his second wife and now he married 3rd time.

His family found out about my past and now hate me.

I am worried that even if he somehow manages to get out of the engagement, his family will hate me and also hate him. I don’t know what to do except pray to Allah for forgiveness and to show me the right path. If any one has any advice i would be grateful.

My husband doesn’t fulfill his responsibilities toward me yet he still spends on his Ex.

What should I do?. I hate my situation. He is making me very bitter. I’m unhappy to the extreme. I love him, but in order to be with him I have to live with this. We now have 2 small children. A 4yr old and a 3month old. I feel terrible about myself. I no longer want to look in the mirror.

He wants to take our daughter from me and I don’t know what to do?

Now he is not asking about his daughter at all, doesn’t want to see her, just keeps repeating that I have to come back with her or he doesn’t want to see her again and he will pray for revenge because I took his daughter away from him. I am praying every day for forgiveness and now I don’t know how to get out from this situation as I want to do the right thing inshaAllah.