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When a woman is raped

My question is, If a woman is raped, whether she gets pregnant from it or not, will she still be stoned for adultery? Or will she receive any lashes? please answer. Alyssa, Age 10

Problems with emotionally troubled husband

We had the katb ktab coz it was needed for his immigration application, and although i knew i was unhappy i let it be. After this told me that it was ok for us to go to hotel and have intercourse because we were legally married. I didn’t want to but he had spoken to a sheikh and said it was legal. i didn’t want to do anything without my family knowing about it, (this katb ktab was only for immigration sake, the wedding was to be held overseas in the presence of his family..). I went along because he was really intimidating me.

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child

Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.

I feel like ending my life! What should I do?

I never wanted to have sex before my marriage……!!!!!! I wanted to keep this as a gift of God for my husband!!! Now I don’t have anything to give and share!!! I hate myself!!! HOW COULD I DO SUCH MISTAKES!!! I HATE MYSELF!!! I want to die!!!

Incest with daughter?

A muslim friend of mine has seen his daughter naked and she has seen her father nude and he had some times practiced physical (oral) sex (but not intercourse). She is 13 years old. Please state what is the status for him, his marriage, and what should be done?

Lost my virginity and I’m ashamed and tormented

When I was 16 years old, I got pressured to going to a party with some friends.. somethings entered my body which impaired my common sense and motor skills. That horrific night, i had my innocence stolen from me. All i could do was cry and shake uncontrolably.

If the boy and girl are engaged and have sex, is it zinaa?

i want to ask u that if a boy and a girl are engaged or they are about to get married or they will get marry soon then by mistake they have that relation before nikah are thay liable to that punish? i mean izs it zinnah?