Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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He is older than me and wishes to marry me. What should I do?

Can you help me please? I am 16 year old girl from England and I am a Christian. I have been dating a man who is older than me for about 6 months now. He is Muslim and has asked me to marry him as he says he loves me. I love him too but he would like to move back to Pakistan after we marry and I want to stay here.

Sex and relationship with a married Muslim man.

I met a man from Gambia 3 months ago and we hit it off. I was extremely shocked at this as I had given him every opportunity to be honest; I asked him numerous times if he was single and each time he assured me that he was. Over the past week he has spoken of this about 3 times and also text me saying “would you marry me”; I replied by asking if that was a text proposal and he said that it was but that he would also do it face to face and on one knee.

Can I stay in touch with my fiancee?

I like a guy who ive known since nursery, and we’re now at Uni and have decided we want to get engaged soon. We’re more friends than anything but we both know we like each other, but dont do any of the wrong stuff..

Her mother wants a doctor for her.

Then our friendship became stronger and we fell in love . We have met only once after 8 months she met me for the first time. Mashallah we are totally pure. Her mom came to know about me that she loves me.

How can I remove my past relationship from my mind?

Actually my problem is that i am a Muslim girl and was in relationship with Hindu guy. At that time i don’t know that this is a very wrong, but as i grow up and come to know that what all i am doing is so worse. I break my relationship…

My Muslim friend is in a relationship with a Hindu guy; I feel guilty and want to end our friendship.

The problem is that her boyfriend is Indian and he is not Muslim. She says that she is Muslim but doesn’t want to pray, fast, wear hijab or do anything else. She said that once she joked around with my dad about marrying an indian non-Muslim guy; he got angry and said that he will never accept her as his daughter ever again. There is no way he would convert and become a good Muslim as he is not interested. To be honest I really don’t think that he is going to marry her.

Is it wrong to be in a relationship with opposite gender?

I would like to ask that I have a girlfriend and we love each other so much. We have a physical relationship like we hug and kiss etc etc but we never crossed our limits never had sex we always controlled ourselves. All we want to know that; is it wrong to be in a relationship before marriage with opposite gender.

Could someone advise me regarding my daughter’s choice of boy for marriage?

He was very short and skinny whereas my daughter is very tall and healthy. It would look very odd, to which she laughed. May Allah forgive me; This guy said that he doesn’t need my permission and he will go ahead with his family and marry my daughter.

Am I right to suspect that my wife is under the influence of black magic?

I got married in 2008 in UK and my wife asked me to leave my mother who lives in Pakistan. My wonderful wife who supported me in all hard times started behaving differently. She ran away from house and ended up in women refuge (via British embassy). Someone in our family introduced her to a pious sheikh; who told her that she is under great black magic, and the problem she got is not a medical one and we should have contacted him before operation.

Boyfriend threatens to expose our relationship to my parents; ruin my life and career.

Within one month of knowing each other, we got together as courting couple. It was my first time. It was him who wanted, and I was reluctant at the start, but followed him. Between me and him, we had already started to talk about settling down next year. He likes to threaten me, saying that he will meet my parents and blurt out everything about what we have done. e also said that he will ruin my career and will create havoc at my workplace. I feel like, all these are happening because I didn’t take care of myself well; I caused shame to my parents I did what they forbid us to do.