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Will I be forgiven by my husband for the sin of intimacy with my lover before marriage?

If this marriage is stopped… then my parents can’t bear that shame. I sacrificed my love for the sake of my parents reputation and happiness. I dont want that to go in vain.

Will Allah be happy with us for our sacrifice?

I like to know that, whether Allah will be happy for our sacrifice. I love a girl and she loves me too. WE prayed to Allah more then a year and also did lots of umrah and also prayed in the place of Dua in Kaaba. She said her wish to her parent and said she asked allah only for him and allah knows her heart. But father does not accept it because of status and society.

Isthikhara on love before marriage

I’ve been asking questions and cant seem to find an answer which is simple. I’ve known this guy for about nearly 3 years and through out those years i’ve always explained to him that i didnt want to be a part of a relationship before marriage and that if we loved each other we wouldnt take one another to hell. It is because of me that he started praying and that he said i made him a better person as i lead him the right way.

His family don’t know I’m his wife, so I allowed him to re-marry. But he won’t treat us equally.

I was a single parent when my husband married me. My family knows about it but his family don’t know. He cannot tell them because we are different nationalities and his family especially his mom will not accept.

I agreed for him to marry again because I didn’t have the right to say no. The problem is that because his family doesn’t know that he is married already, he will be unfair with me regarding equality of wives.