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Stressful marriage lead me to commit sins, I want to repent and get rid of these habits

one day i was really depressed and i just went on face book and started talking to a man who was 15 years older than me . he just showed me love and affection which i was lacking in my life i ended up having on-line affair with him and he introduced me to masturbation now i am addicted to him and masturbation but on the other side i am really scared and fearful and want to get rid of these bad habits but don’t know what to do please advise me and all brothers and sisters pray for me.

Should I leave my non- Muslim husband?

Which is more sinful. Living with him or breaking the family apart? I have no where to go if I leave him. My dad refuses to take me in as he does not want the children to be fatherless. My husband too refuses to let me go. He wants to fight for custody. I do not want to leave in bitterness. I live in a country where money is everything.

Thinking of leaving my boyfriend for religion but it’s hard.

i m here to seek some advice as it is getting harder for me to take a decision.i think of it all the time i hope Allah(SWT) forgives me n guide me.as ive said i want to walk away but its just to n hard as ive been with him for years n he’ll break completely.i want to proceed in my life with him having a halal relationship but i dont kno if it’s possible.i want a husband who will help me get closer to Allah.

Should a women disclose her past and is it justified/reasonable for potential husband to ask/know?

Am I correct in feeling and thinking this way? Or does the fact that I am sorry and have sincerely repented in a way undo what I have done? Should men respect a women’s answer when she says her past is her business and she won’t tell him and do women have a right to this?

Am I still virgin and will Allah (swt) forgive me

If a virgin Muslim girl’s fingers and bleeds, does this mean that she is no longer a virgin? Will/Can Allah (swt) forgive her sins?

I fear I have lost myself here and hereafter

i want to hug her so that i can feel a bit relieved..i fear grave,i fear standing infront of allah.ifear allahh..i fear prophet mohammad saw hadis that sins decrease your rizq..im going nowhere..please help me iwant to offer my missed salah..iwant to perform my missed fasts and i want to be a good muslim..ifear my future..

Want to get out of my depressed condition

i feel like a worthless creature. on the top if that my family alwz thinks me to be a very nice gal when they will get to knew this my brothers wnt evn trust me.i have broken thr trust . i want to take that person out of my head and also out of my life. want to lead a pious life as before.

I committed Zina, now I am afraid that my Repentance may not be accepted

I am really shameful to tell that I had sex with a girl. I begged for forgiveness in whole Ramazan but I am not satisfied because I am really afraid of first few verses of surah Al noor .. please guide me what can i do please

Marriage without witnesses, regret & will I be forgiven and get married?

I am confused & regretful. I’m seeking for God’s forgiveness. What shall I do to prove my regret & ask forgiveness? Will I be forgiven? Will I be able to get married in real? Please help me in finding the answers.

Will my past affect my future?

Although all this happened last year, I am fearful that he resents me for trying to do the right thing. I am afraid that he will try to sabotage my future. I know that he has pictures of me without my hijab on and with clothing that does not fully cover. At the same time, I think that he will not know anything about my future and can therefore do no harm.