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Am I right to suspect that my wife is under the influence of black magic?

I got married in 2008 in UK and my wife asked me to leave my mother who lives in Pakistan. My wonderful wife who supported me in all hard times started behaving differently. She ran away from house and ended up in women refuge (via British embassy). Someone in our family introduced her to a pious sheikh; who told her that she is under great black magic, and the problem she got is not a medical one and we should have contacted him before operation.

Boyfriend threatens to expose our relationship to my parents; ruin my life and career.

Within one month of knowing each other, we got together as courting couple. It was my first time. It was him who wanted, and I was reluctant at the start, but followed him. Between me and him, we had already started to talk about settling down next year. He likes to threaten me, saying that he will meet my parents and blurt out everything about what we have done. e also said that he will ruin my career and will create havoc at my workplace. I feel like, all these are happening because I didn’t take care of myself well; I caused shame to my parents I did what they forbid us to do.

Am I divorced? Am I gonna be punished for divorcing my husband?

While we were both very excited about the pregnancy, he asked me to stay home from work because my job was very physical. I loved my husband so much that I waited 14 months for him to be released. While he was in jail, I got an apartment and took care of all the bills, my 2 children. I got a call from my doctor saying that; I had contracted Chlamydia. I begged him to stop and he said he will. Two weeks later they were still talking and they were even in contact with each other while we were at an Islamic conference together for the weekend.

I divorced my husband due to my family pressure but I want him back in my life

I got engaged in 2010 and it took some time for me to convince my father to approve. I believe there were some family issues that stopped my father from accepting, and he thought that the guy wasn’t right for me. When it came to the wedding planning we had a disagreement about where the wedding will take place and it was very stupid but, his mother interfered and it got a lot worst. I was willing to give it another try but my dad was not happy with all this and said; it’s HIM OR US. After thinking long and hard; I know that I won’t be happy without him and this wasn’t the decision I wanted. Is there any way I can go back to him after the divorce?