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Mental confusion

Sometimes it feels like all the elements are pushing us towards each other and at other time we are pushed apart.

How do I know if Allah wants me to marry him?

We met online and he asked me to get married. Because of circumstances we cannot meet face to face unless we are going to get married so meeting before we say yes is out of the question.

Proposal accepted by father then rejected!

I have no idea what to do anymore, if his reasons for my marriage were Islamic and acceptable then I would stay away, however they are not which is frustrating.

Need advice regarding my Istikhara

Since performing the istikhara I still feel confident with the choice I have made. I think about her, keep wondering how she is and what she’s doing but never since istikhara has the thought about marrying her come across my mind.

I don’t know what is good for me, nor what I want

I have not performed Istikhara on this. I have been hesitating. Apparently my sub-consciousness tells me that since the result of my Istikhara from the ex was very painful, this too could be disappointing and I have no more room for hurt. I know I am not making sense. It’s like I am running away from the truth because it is painful.

I love him but I do not like his educational profile; Should I do Rukhsati or not?

Sould I go for marriage because he seems to very caring and loving? Although I do not at all like his educational profile? I do Istekhara, but my heart is depressed with both going ahead as well as going back.

Christian Girl pregnant by a Muslim man, what to do?

We speak on the phone, but anytime I ask what is the right thing to do he gets angry and asks why I didn’t abort the child. He hasn’t helped with the pregnancy at all, and I’ve been doing everything on my own with a child already.

I think my husband is cheating on me, what should I do?

I had an email account that he was talking to girls about his sexual desire and dreams. I have noticed he watches a lot of porn and tells me there is nothing wrong with that. So now a lot of things go in my mind like, did he use an escort service, does he do it online on porn sites, and a lot of other stuff. Of course he denies it all and swears that he has done nothing wrong.

Lost my religion: Islam

It’s killing me 🙁 A number of times I tried to get back to Islam but FAILED!!! The very idea of God becomes unacceptable to me, but a few months back I do remember while I was on a flight and our plane had some severe jolts because of weather and I thought we would crash and all I could utter was the Kalimah, and I uttered it many a times.

should i marry him or not?

My problem maybe a typical one but it is causing a great tension in my head. There is this cousin of mine who says that he loves me a lot and recently he has sent a proposal for me. I am not at all sure about this marriage ever since he has sent a proposal for me.