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Not sure about my virginity

I’m egyptian muslim (20 years) my parents are really stricted, and i am engaged (with no previous realationship).

But I like him and I begin to love him, he is very kind respectable religious guy.

And he believe that he can’t touch me until we are married (wedding after I finish my collage 2 year left)

Its the second time I’m engaged, actually the disaster is I used to masturbate when I was a kid till I was 19. First I didn’t know that is masterbation and I didn’t know its haram (forbidden) and many times the masterbation makes me bleeds .

Cheated on husband. Should I tell him or divorce cuz he deserves better?

I am from Pakistan. I was married for 6 yrs. It was nikkah so according to our elders we werent allowed to sleep with each other. In pakistan there is another ceremony called “giving away the bride”, thats when the girl leaves house to live with the husband. Since we hadn’t done the GiveAway ceremony, we weren’t allowed to sleep with each other but of course me and my husband did. There were so many restrictions that were brought upon us by our families. I went to school in a different state and ended up sleeping with another guy.