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Forced Marriage, Family Violence and Threats of Rape

Greetings my brothers and sisters I am new to this site and i feel i have no where else to go to. I am inlove with a girl with all my heart and all my intention towards her is good, but she has been forced marriage without her having a No option. She was Threatend and Harrased by her Aunt on her father side. She only agreed on the marriage because there is a threat on her mother would die if she dose not marry her cousin.

I’m terrified to go back to abusive husband who threatens to kill me

Dear I’m married have children and another on the way. I’m writing this message as I’m seeking for honest advice on how to proceed with my personal situation, as my self-esteem is very low to stand up for myself within my relationship with my husband and family and I’m terrified and scared. My husband has an anger problem. This was already clear from the beginning after getting married.

Abusive cheating father and violent brother

Please help me on what should I do with my dad. My brothers and my mum, we have no life, its all just arguments one after the other and with my dad total silence. And I don’t think I can take it. I stay up to hours in my room crying and thinking how shall I handle things as my mum looks to me for advice and help and I’m stuck. I’ve been brought up so dependent on others due to being so protected that I can’t take the next step forward, as I always stop and think how it will affect my mum.

I used to beat and abuse my husband and now he wants to divorce me.

I am very tensed as I have committed a very big sin of beating my husband and abusing him and behaved very badly with him for which I feel so guilty that I am not able to forgive myself .

My brother is going to run away due to abusive behaviour of my father; please help

My father has been very emotionally abusive towards my brother. He is blamed for anything and everything, for example the TV not working, the university not responding to his application, and the weather not turning out as the forecast said it would. A few times, my brother threatened to run away when he was angry, and he would have if my mother didn’t stop him. My mother was able to get my brother to wait until morning before leaving, and he did, and today he keeps trying to run away. I’m afraid that he won’t listen to my mother anymore.

Husband gets angry over small things, need help with marriage.

I am muslimah. I have been married for 5 years. It is a love marriage. I don’t know what else to say about my marriage except that I have been crying my eyes out so often these years. I don’t know where to start. I used to think that I was so lucky to have found a man who adores me and loves me for who I am. But things turned sour after the marriage…

Can I make a non-Muslim girl my slave ?

I was at a gas station and a girl approached me asking for money. She said she was trying to run away from her abusive boyfriend who was an alcoholic and would sometimes get drunk and beat her. I asked her if she had family she could go to. She said she does not want to go to her parents because they disowned her…

Getting married before getting divorce. Please do not judge me

My name is latifa and I am from the uk. I am going to post out about my situation but I don´t want anyone to judge me. All your comments and thoughts will be very much welcomed. Hope to hear from anyone soon.
It all happened in 2007, I married a guy who my family chose for me from bangladesh. We got on very well, but he had to go to bangladesh as his visa was about to expire. I applied for him and that but the visa got refused. Every 3 months

My ex is cursing me because I finished with him due to his haram lifestyle

I wanted to ask question regarding the solution to a problem that I am facing right now. I was going to get married to a guy. Both families met and agreed to our marriage. Everything went well from both sides Alhamdullilah. However after a while, the guy I was going to get married started to act strange. He witnessed his friend’s death and this changed him to a totally different person. He was facing a lot of problems and had family responsibilities as he was the eldest in the family. His father passed away before he was so, he had no father figure around him.

Should I leave my abusive husband?

I have been married for 8 years and MashAllah have two boys by the Grace of Allah. My husband has physically and verbally started abusing me from the third day of our marriage. For two years I never told anyone. But then I involved his and my family.We have had many sit down discussions. Every time he promises not to do it , but does it again. I dont know if I should stay with him or leave. Please help me.