Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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I’m depressed and having trouble in letting things go

I’ve decided to not get married forever and dedicate my life to Allah only. I was weak, I couldn’t avoid temptation and now I’ve been in depression that I cannot even forget him for a second.

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Why do women cheat??

I saw many men who are loyal but their wife cheated. I realize that there is no such thing as love. I have fear that after marriage my wife will do the same thing.

Whether to marry a virgin or not?

I know many people will say that I should not worry about as this is between Allah and her – but the fact is that I am one of these men who will be bothered by this. I am not the type of person who would judge a woman who committed zina but rather would prefer not to marry someone like this.

The boy I love lost his virginity to someone else

Salaam. I’ve just joined this site and I was wondering if I could get any advice. I’m 17 years old and my best friend who is a male is a 2 years older than me. We have a good friendship – no physical contact. We both wish to marry INSHALLAH in the coming years when we are of suitable age. I’ve known him for 1 1/2 years, and we mean a lot to each other.

Should I marry her now I know she is not a virgin?

It was brought to my knowledge that my fiancee is not a virgin. It is hard for me to accept this and I have wanted to ask someone about it.

How do I help my best friend realise the enourmity of her sin?

I heard u give really good advice, as my friend emailed u asking about a frend who lost her virginity willingly. Well the that friend in fact is my best frend and I have the same problem. But nothing about forgiving. I just dont know whether to trust her or not, as i feel very uncomfortable around.
And another one of my frends is trying to advice her about the consequences and what she must do (wearing a hijab) but she just doesn’t seem to feel the guilt of her actions.

I took my girlfriend’s virginity, now she’s getting married to another guy.

Please excuse my grammar and misspelling english is not my first language. I come from a Christian family, but I was never very religious at all, like the average western teen all I care about was girls, parties living a reckless life. About 4 years ago I met a tajik girl at work, at first we where coworkers, then friends and it turned into a relationship with out the approval of her father and mother.

Half a Virgin

He was my first boyfriend, and at this stage I was very naive, foolish, unknowledgable about the whole dating process, and was somewhat heavily influenced by his lifestyle. Due to my naivety, I am scarred by certain things he made me do, which i realised later are considered to be major sins in Islam. After research, I can say with deep repentance that I am half a virgin.

I sinned before I converted to Islam; how do I explain this to my future husband?

I am a 25 year old woman who converted from Christianity to Islam. Although I was raised Baptist, I was not a practicing Christian and strayed in many ways. Due to my previous choices, I am not a virgin. When I was introduced to Islam I immediately felt like I had the relationship with God I had always wanted (and needed) and completely changed my life and my thinking.

Divorce or Keep Secret Nikkah

I have a situation and I really need help. I live in north American society and I met a beautiful muslim girl 3 years ago. After meeting her couple of times I proposed her and consulted with my parents. My parents spoke to her parents. I was 20 at that time. Her parents did not want to get her married to me at that time and did not say yes or no to my parents. To avoid any problems and thinking both parents will agree any time we decided to have our nikkah done in secret (without a wali). During the 3 years period of nikkah we had intercourse only once.