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I’ve been hiding my marriage from my family for years and I can’t take it anymore

I married secretly with my husband. None of my family knew, but his relatives knew. After a year i had courage to tell my mum and sisters, but my dad and brother still don’t know. i have said i’m at university for 4 years but really i’m married and living with my husband. He is muslim reads namaz (prays) etc, but is of a different caste, so my dad will never accept him, plus my dad is a heart patient i cant take risk of upsetting him. so i have to lie to dad and brother that im still studying.