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Husband provides no financial support, but still wants intercourse

if wife stay seperate and husband doesn’t give any shelter, money, spending money, but wants to visit sometimes and have intercourse with his wife, is it permissible for him to keep such a relation?

he married me urfi and now he hardly comes to see me or call me

salam i am a new muslim and i need advice. i married for 7 months now but its just an urfi marriage coz my husband’s parents did not accept me when my husband told them about me. but still i married him coz i love him so much.

the problem is before we married he made a condition with me that he must to go back to his previous wife. he said it’s for the sake of his son and he told me that he cannot stay with me after that happens, and becoz i love him so much i accepted everything coz he promised me too that he will never change on me. but this not what happening now coz for 2 months now he is showing me that he don’t care anymore about me. i feel it coz he did not come to me he just came after 1 or 2 weeks and he cant even give me a call, he just call me after 4 days or sometimes 1 week.

I am 17 and I want an Urfi marriage, am I doing the right thing?

Salam, me and my partner are both practicing muslims, and we have decided that we want to get married. I am 17yrs old, am I old enough to get married in the eyes of Islam? The second problem is I am pakistani and my partner is Bengali so we don’t want our parents to know as they would refuse, so we thought we could get an Urfi marriage, we understand that no record of the marriage will be kept, and after a few months we will make it official. In the eyes of Islam is this acceptable? And is it possible to do this in Bangladesh?