There’s something he is not telling me…
Asalam u alaikum
I am in need of your help.. i like this person and we are together for the last 3 and a half years. . he is very sweet. .understanding.. loyal and naik guy. . i had done many wrong mistakes in my life and he always helped me. . but now things are turning sour. . he has told his family about me they all agree and so is my family..but the problem is for the last one month he is behaving as if he might leave me.. there is something that he is not telling me because i know he wont leave me for another person. . i am praying 5 times. . i wanted to ask the tareeeka of salat-e-hajaat. . i want to pray for him.. for us. . please guide me
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In Islam we keep away from suspiciousness judgemental and most of all talking about past sins ..This is all whispering of shaitan..My advice is learn your Deen properly and build on it...
Perfect SALAT and it's prerequisite Reading Quran morning and evening doing tabih daily..
Attending functions at the local Sunni mosque and participating in women's functions..
IF YOUR HUSBAND LEAVES
..THEN IT IS HIS CHOICE BUT IT SHOULDN'T DESTROY YOUR PERSONALITY AND FAITH.
Well firstly you shouldn't be talking to him unless you have an elder present (mum, dad, older sibling). Follow that rule and your suspicions will go away or come out in the open. If you continue to speak to him without the presence of an elder before you are married then you are sinning and your suspicions will not go away.
I never not once spoke to my wife before I married her, which meant I had 0 suspicions and she had 0 suspicions and what you have is complete trust. A marriage that begins with trust is far more likely to succeed.