I suspect that I am a victim of Black Magic
Black Magic
My name is Lina and have all symptoms of a black magic curse.
And I've heard that in the dark moon and the full moon these symptoms increase. And today's moon is full so..
I've met that guy it was when I 1st went to college he was a really normal person but i didn't really think he could do such bad and wicked thing to me. Problems between us happened after a long time of knowing each other and going out with each other.
I heard he was talking behind my back and saying bad things. My best friend told me so and I actually believed her because she has no intentions about lying to me. So I called him and I started accusing him and telling him how could you do that and how could you say that about me. He denied that he said anything and said you're crazy, and from that moment our friendship started to end and we didn't talk to each other from that moment.
It was last summer, from that moment all my life started to fall apart, things went wrong dramatically.
I started losing everyone, especially my best friend. I lost her and some bad rumors started to spread and bad talking about things I didn't do. Suddenly everything in my life went wrong , I was in my best friends place and the minute that I left, the very next day she didn't want to talk to me and said i don't want to know you again.
Now you could only say that hes the revengeful type and wanted to destroy me and destroy everything i have , but very odd and weird things Ive started feeling lately, although i didn't love him at all , i started loving him and i started to think about him intensely and i always wanted to call him although he was ignoring me and treating me in a very bad way.
My mind stopped and all am thinking about is him and sometimes i feel that i want to sleep with him but actually all these feelings are very harsh , i have sleeping problems, am always worrying fearing everything especially at night when am about to sleep, always feel rejected by everyone and stuck in the past and cant seem to move on.
I am the kind of a person that moves on very easily and i don't really concern myself about the past, am tired Ive always needed help , my parents cant believe me when i tell them i could be cursed and wicked . Because they simply do not believe in black magic ,
Problems everywhere , i have no friends at the moment i always feel lonely and aloof and even the idea of having new friends is an obstacle for me right now , i ended up from a very sociable person to a girl who only goes out with her sister and parents ,
i always have this feeling of fear * i cant*. And allot more symptoms that am concluded now could be black magic
I need help Ive tried almost everything , read alot of duaa that removes this curse it helps but all those symptoms come back ,
i pray and i read Qur'an i sometimes sleep with the holly book next to me because am scared and actually for no reason.
~ thesufferer
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Salamualaikum,
Sister, before any discussion on whether black magic has been performed, you mentioned that you have all the symptoms of the black magic. Can you mention them?
You said: And I've heard that in the dark moon and the full moon these symptoms increase. Infact, in magic, the Shaitaan is the one who makes the effects happen.
This comes from the creed of the non Muslims. The sun and the moon are among the signs of Allah. And they have no such effect.
And your accusation of that man, do you have any proof that he has performed magic on you? Practice of magic, and even learning magic is Kufr. And when you accuse someone of Kufr, and it is not true, then the ruling of Kufr is on you. So, you should always beware of accusing someone.
I would like to know the symptoms you mentioned.
Wassalamualaikum
Muhammad Waseem
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Assalamualaykum, thesufferer
You said:
Maybe this is not black magic and just the result of a haraam relationship.
I don't mean to be harsh, but if you turn to Allah and act in a halaal fashion, Allah will be with you.
AmericanMuslim
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Right. I agree.
Muhammad Waseem
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Salaams,
I agree that first and foremost the haraam relationship issues and focusing back on Allah advice given above is most important. However, I have some observations as I read your post. hope that my sharing them with you will help you look at the situation from a different angle and if needed, address the areas I've noticed which may be contributing to the outcomes you cited.
"I heard he was talking behind my back and saying bad things....So I called him and I started accusing him and telling him how could you do that and how could you say that about me."
Let's start with this. I understand why you would believe your friend, but even if she was right, coming at someone with accusations and blaming doesn't accomplish anything. What if she accidentally mixed up some of the information she shared with you, or you somehow misunderstood it? Instead of going to the guy reasonably and saying something like, "I have some concerns about XYZ, and I was hoping we could talk about it so I can clarify what might be going on." or "I heard some things about you that didn't sound characteristic of you and have me concerned, so do you mind if I tell you what I've heard so you can put my mind at ease?" You came at him in such a way that didn't give him the opportunity to explain himself or bring his views. I hate to say it, but when you come to others attacking them, it's not surprising that they would think you are irrational and/or cut ties with you.
Quite honestly, if you treat someone who you were previously "going with" like that, you may even be prone to treat others who are close to you like that as well. If you are in the habit of treating others a certain way which they find hurtful or offensive, and you don't realize it, something like what you said: "I started losing everyone, especially my best friend. I lost her and some bad rumors started to spread and bad talking about things I didn't do. Suddenly everything in my life went wrong , I was in my best friends place and the minute that I left, the very next day she didn't want to talk to me and said i don't want to know you again." could very easily happen. I'm not sure what type of rumors they may be saying about you, but it's easy to turn others against you, causing them to exaggerate or make things up about you, if you have been treating them in a disrespectful and devaluing way.
These examples I have brought up, along with your reported feelings of fear, anxiety, and pining away for a lost love paint a picture of someone who seems to me to be very driven by their emotions. I know all of this is conjecture, and just piecing together bits based on what you've shared. It could be entirely wrong. Like I said, these are just observations.
Just for the sake of my response, if my observations do hold any merit, I can tell you that anyone who is very emotionally wired will tend to make decisions, react to others, and understand things from their emotional states. This way of living life sometimes causes others to see that person in a negative light, and the person ends up having unstable friendships and relationships. The constant tumult makes the person feel like things are out of their control and that something else is in control of their lives instead of themselves. A lot of times, instead of looking at themselves to see what they are doing to contribute to their experience of life, they will blame their circumstances on others, on God, on black magic, or any number of things.
Try if you can and take an objective look at who you are and how you deal with others, how you deal with various situations. Do you tend to be patient or impatient? Do you tend to react before thinking, or think after you react? How do you take criticism, rejection, and bad news? When you have a choice about something, how do you decide which choice to make?
The answers to these questions can give you some type of indication as to how you are approaching life. If you find that you tend to be impatient, reactionary, find it difficult to take rejection etc, and make decisions based on how you feel about something...it's very possible that you are the one that is causing others to deal with you a certain way. If that's the case, maybe it's time to find ways to balance your natural emotional hard wiring with thoughtfulness, proactivity, and patience.
-Amy
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
I meant to say "think BEFORE you react".
Amy
Great response, sister! Alhamdulillah!
sallam sister
i really cant advice your against black magic as i really dont know much!
However i am a doctor and I can say that your symptoms may me medical as opposed to magical. You seem to suffer from "INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS" these are thought you dont want that just pop into your head and you think about them over and over.
secondly lack of sleep or disruption of sleep is a sign of illness too, it can be related to alot of disorders.
thirdly loosing freinds and becomeing isolated is common issue in alot of illnesses.
Im not trying to label you as ill im just saying check out all your options and take control of the situation. I would discuss these issues with my GP.
tell you doc whats goind on. it may be some simple thing as just stress and lack of sleep or it may be serious but just check out your options.
Allah hafiz
salaam sister,
my two pence worth. i have heard reading surah insaan (76) is very good for protection against such things. if indeed it is such things a magic.
Hal ata AAala alinsani heenun mina alddahri lam yakun shayan mathkooran
2. Inna khalaqna alinsana min nutfatin amshajin nabtaleehi fajaAAalnahu sameeAAan baseeran
3. Inna hadaynahu alssabeela imma shakiran waimma kafooran
4. Inna aAAtadna lilkafireena salasila waaghlalan wasaAAeeran
5. Inna alabrara yashraboona min kasin kana mizajuha kafooran
6. AAaynan yashrabu biha AAibadu Allahi yufajjiroonaha tafjeeran
7. Yoofoona bialnnathri wayakhafoona yawman kana sharruhu mustateeran
8. WayutAAimona alttaAAama AAala hubbihi miskeenan wayateeman waaseeran
9. Innama nutAAimukum liwajhi Allahi la nureedu minkum jazaan wala shukooran
10. Inna nakhafu min rabbina yawman AAaboosan qamtareeran
11. Fawaqahumu Allahu sharra thalika alyawmi walaqqahum nadratan wasurooran
12. Wajazahum bima sabaroo jannatan wahareeran
13. Muttakieena feeha AAala alaraiki la yarawna feeha shamsan wala zamhareeran
14. Wadaniyatan AAalayhim thilaluha wathullilat qutoofuha tathleelan
15. Wayutafu AAalayhim bianiyatin min fiddatin waakwabin kanat qawareera
16. Qawareera min fiddatin qaddarooha taqdeeran
17. Wayusqawna feeha kasan kana mizajuha zanjabeelan
18. AAaynan feeha tusamma salsabeelan
19. Wayatoofu AAalayhim wildanun mukhalladoona itha raaytahum hasibtahum luluan manthooran
20. Waitha raayta thamma raayta naAAeeman wamulkan kabeeran
21. AAaliyahum thiyabu sundusin khudrun waistabraqun wahulloo asawira min fiddatin wasaqahum rabbuhum sharaban tahooran
22. Inna hatha kana lakum jazaan wakana saAAyukum mashkooran
23. Inna nahnu nazzalna AAalayka alqurana tanzeelan
24. Faisbir lihukmi rabbika wala tutiAA minhum athiman aw kafooran
25. Waothkuri isma rabbika bukratan waaseelan
26. Wamina allayli faosjud lahu wasabbihhu laylan taweelan
27. Inna haolai yuhibboona alAAajilata wayatharoona waraahum yawman thaqeelan
28. Nahnu khalaqnahum washadadna asrahum waitha shina baddalna amthalahum tabdeelan
29. Inna hathihi tathkiratun faman shaa ittakhatha ila rabbihi sabeelan
30. Wama tashaoona illa an yashaa Allahu inna Allaha kana AAaleeman hakeeman
31. Yudkhilu man yashao fee rahmatihi waalththalimeena aAAadda lahum AAathaban aleeman
Has there not been over man a period of time, when he was nothing to be mentioned?
2. Verily, We have created man from Nutfah drops of mixed semen (discharge of man and woman), in order to try him, so We made him hearer, seer.
3. Verily, We showed him the way, whether he be grateful or ungrateful.
4. Verily, We have prepared for the disbelievers iron chains, iron collars, and a blazing Fire.
5. Verily, the Abrar (pious, who fear Allah and avoid evil), shall drink a cup (of wine) mixed with water from a spring in Paradise called Kafur.
6. A spring wherefrom the slaves of Allah will drink, causing it to gush forth abundantly.
7. They (are those who) fulfill (their) vows, and they fear a Day whose evil will be wide-spreading.
8. And they give food, inspite of their love for it (or for the love of Him), to Miskin (poor), the orphan, and the captive,
9. (Saying): "We feed you seeking Allah's Countenance only. We wish for no reward, nor thanks from you.
10. "Verily, We fear from our Lord a Day, hard and distressful, that will make the faces look horrible (from extreme dislikeness to it)."
11. So Allah saved them from the evil of that Day, and gave them Nadratan (a light of beauty) and joy.
12. And their recompense shall be Paradise, and silken garments, because they were patient.
13. Reclining therein on raised thrones, they will see there neither the excessive heat of the sun, nor the excessive bitter cold, (as in Paradise there is no sun and no moon).
14. And the shade thereof is close upon them, and the bunches of fruit thereof will hang low within their reach.
15. And amongst them will be passed round vessels of silver and cups of crystal,
16. Crystal-clear, made of silver. They will determine the measure thereof according to their wishes.
17. And they will be given to drink there a cup (of wine) mixed with Zanjabil (ginger, etc.),
18. A spring there, called Salsabil.
19. And round about them will (serve) boys of everlasting youth. If you see them, you would think them scattered pearls.
20. And when you look there (in Paradise), you will see a delight (that cannot be imagined), and a great dominion.
21. Their garments will be of fine green silk, and gold embroidery. They will be adorned with bracelets of silver, and their Lord will give them a pure drink.
22. (And it will be said to them): "Verily, this is a reward for you, and your endeavour has been accepted."
23. Verily! It is We Who have sent down the Qur'an to you (O Muhammad ) by stages.
24. Therefore be patient (O Muhammad ) and submit to the Command of your Lord (Allah, by doing your duty to Him and by conveying His Message to mankind), and obey neither a sinner nor a disbeliever among them.
25. And remember the Name of your Lord every morning and afternoon [i.e. offering of the Morning (Fajr), Zuhr, and 'Asr prayers].
26. And during night, prostrate yourself to Him (i.e. the offering of Maghrib and 'Isha' prayers), and glorify Him a long night through (i.e. Tahajjud prayer).
27. Verily! These (disbelievers) love the present life of this world, and put behind them a heavy Day (that will be hard).
28. It is We Who created them, and We have made them of strong built. And when We will, We can replace them with others like them with a complete replacement.
29. Verily! This (Verses of the Qur'an) is an admonition, so whosoever wills, let him take a Path to his Lord (Allah).
30. But you cannot will, unless Allah wills. Verily, Allah is Ever All-Knowing, All-Wise.
31. He will admit to His Mercy whom He will and as for the Zalimun, (polytheists, wrong-doers, etc.) He has prepared a painful torment.
I'm not sure of the validity of this. ag51y, can you please quote the reference that says it is good for such protection? Because most Ahadeeth that speak about the recitation of a certain Surah for specific purpose are weak or fabricated.
Muhammad Waseem
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
My heart is breaking for you my dear sister. The description of your symptoms, INTENSE love and cannot think of anything else is a tell tale sign of the type of sihr a person does to make them love unconditionally.
EVEN IF you have no one to go to that can diagnose this, following Quran and Sunnah never hurt a soul.
So please my dear sister, stick to this cure and i pray that you will get cured ya Rab.
Stay away from all haram. Do not have any relationships with men, even friends. If you are not a hijabi, please think about covering. Get rid of any images or music from where you reside.
Daily program:
Do your prayers, do your morning and evening azkar.
Read 100x ayah kursi
Read 100 x salam on prophet (Allahuma salle wa sallem ala nabbiyina muhammad)
Read 100 x (la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah)
Read 100 x istighfar
Read baqarah AT LEAST ONE DAILY, REALLY IT SHOULD BE THREe but start with one and STICK TO IT,
Read surah falaq and surah naas 100x daily
Do tahajjud or pray with part or all of baqarah in sunnah prayer after isha
When u Read surah baqarah, right after blow on water and oil. Drink water before , during and after ruqya. Put oil first thing in morning and before bed. And spray on your house. Bathe in teh water daily-very important! Stay clean and in wudu at all times, as much as you can. Use misk on yoursrlf before bed.
Look this program is not easy BUT if you CONTINUE AND PERSIST, the jinn will leave and at that time, the symptoms will not return. Right now, whatev ruqya you did is not sufficient because sihr jinns are very stubborn and they do not leave with a little ruqya. You have to persist and persist,..up to however long it takes.
I pray Allah grants you a cure. Watever you do , do not loose hope and make this program a LIFESTYLE for you. If you have sihr, You will have a reaction, anger, extreme saddness, Mad thoughts and impulses when u do this ruqya , but u need to Persist in ruqya.
The jinn basically settle often in brain and superimpose their thoughts on the person. You can read some books regarding this topic of sihr on kalamullah.com. Waheed bali is an expert in this field. Look him up.
If you are able to go to HAJJ, go to hajj. It is very potent against the shaytaean. And if you are in the united states, then contact sheikh waleed basyouni.
I wish i could give you more support.
Great reply.. I have the same suspect..i'll do this ruqya In'sha Allah!
JazakAllah brother!
Great answers, I strongly believe in black magic and hate it also, real protector is Almighty Allah, though in all situations He is the prtector , but who knows what he is planning for her. When I was unmarried I had similar or to some extect similar problems , when I got married with a guy of my family's choice I got totally ok, Alhamdulillah. I am not so sensitive like before , I am not scared etc. and incidentally my husband is a psychiatrist, he said that this was a kind of psychosexual disorder (PLease don't take it other way , I myself am a doc too) and I am no trying to say that she has a same prob like me , but my husband said that after starting my sexual relation with him , there was Endorphine or some kind of mood elevator hormone in my blood stream so my anxiety is gone. Allah knows the best . So my advice is don't think of having fun or friends now as u r not married ,,, just u don't need friends , ur sister is ur friend, ur books are your companions, manage and restrict your life and mind in some way that u don't have to seek too much attention. As Allah is the most nearest and nearer than your jugular vein to you and the best helping friend.
Rabiya: I am not scared etc. and incidentally my husband is a psychiatrist, he said that this was a kind of psychosexual disorder (PLease don't take it other way , I myself am a doc too) and I am no trying to say that she has a same prob like me ,
What is psychosexual disorder? Do you mean lack of sex is causing psychological problems?
You are a doctor? How can you tell when a problem is caused by black magic? Does your husband a psychiatrist, also believe in black magic?
Hi, Yes black magic is in this world and it has a history how it came and practiced , you can see in Quran,, or now in internet, you can just go to 'History of black magic" and can see many , but the truth behind is , it is done to deviate human from religion , later human become dependent on it , this is the intention of this kind of magic , but the name Magic is not appropriate , it can be something like Psychological Motivation Towards Falsehood or Fantasy.One of my relative used to do this practice to take money from my dad, when I was very little I saw she used to slaughter black chicken and do some strange act and then cooked and made my dad eat that , she was his step ma. Later she came to our house where we lived in the capital city, she put something like amulent or pedant hanging on our indoor plants very secretly, and also put some small papers inside ground digging the soil just near my dad and mom's bedroom, then put some thing inside my dad's pillow.. All were seen by our cook , as he was always like a detective following her everywhere. So when he told this to my mom, my mom became angry and suspected of black magic, during this time my dad developed his stomach upsetting prob etc. and also he gave all his salary money to his step ma keeping very less for us , just like a hypnotised man, he also started miss his 5 times prayers, he was threatened by the President of the country to be killed as he was a freedom fighter, he had many accidents while driving as he forgot when to press the brake or when the exel, but he was a good driver, as he was an army officer, he became very low profiled suddenly. So my mom went to a very religios man , he told her that it is a common practice in the uneducated people who are greedy or don't care about religion or other people. Though he wanted to be confirmed, so my mom took all those strange things to him and he confirmed that those were things to do black magic and there is some Sura and prayers in Quran to get rid of that magic, and suggested her never to do this to anyone because this is Blasphemy.
Ok, about the psychosexual disorder , actually human sexual satisfaction is a kind of healing process for some mental restlessness, but it very much seen nowadays because people have a very exposed life style and there are movies , rock, disco and many fun or enjoyment , so people usually think of sex or intense feeling to get someone easily. Before during the time of the Prophets , marriage was not considred as a requirement for sex, marriage was a social bondage and helping- each-other like relationship, though between husband wife sex was allowed. U see Jesus din't get married , but when he will come to this world again , it is said that He will get married and live a very normal human life with wife and children and after 40 years He will have a normal death. So we cannot give marriage a bad name. U know that Prophet Ayub had 12 wives, Prophet Ibrahim had 11 wives , even our Prophet Muhammed (SAW) had many wives, these marriages seems abnormal to the people of modern days because they cannot think anything else other than sex in a relationship, but things were not the same before during Prophets time.
Psychosexuality is an intense or abonormal desire for sex accompanied by many mental peopblems , like depression, anxieties etc. These are due to lack of some good hormones. That's why whena person have sex he/ she becomes cool . Later there is another thing which really a psychological only, it can be with anxiety or restlessness but only to have a platonic love or affection or some kind of cuddling or caressing from relatives or friends, but in this situation there is no such intense feeling for some one. So we all should keep our selves within our limit, mentally and physically, pls don't take it as rsetriction or something. This is seen in animals who have a very systematic and controled lifestyle and no restlessness. Oh one thing I should say that our Prophet Muhammed (SAW) was a victim of black magic. There is history , u can read.
I bet if you come closer to Islam, you can do anything good you want. Just believe in Allah. The best way to get rid of all worries is "Ibaadat". Just stop thinking is this black magic or something else ...
Note:- I'm just a 17 year old, giving my opinion. In other words ask someone capable of guiding you.
Thanks.