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What is the Penalty of Wrong Swear (Qasam)?

What about the penalty of wrong qasam against anyone due to anger. its not preplanned but just because of slipping of tongue. what the penalty of that in Islam.


~ m.zahid

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  1. Assalamu'alaikum brother,

    Your question is not clear. Are you asking what is the expiation for breaking an oath (a promise)? Have you sworn not to do something but have done it? Or have you sworn to do or not to do something but you did not intend that way?

    Please clarify.

    Abu Abdul Bari Editor

  2. Assalam o allaikum.
    Mera swaal ye hai k mere frnds ne ramzan Mae aik dance party ki thi,or Mae bhi wahan chali Gaye thi,laikin mujhe wahan ja kr feel hwa k Maine bht ghalat Kia hai or bht bra gunah kr diya waja se Mae roza bhi nhe rakh paye,ghr a kr sharmindgi k alam Mae Maine ye kasam kha li k agr Mae dobara is trha Gaye to Mae daira e Islam se kharij ho jao,mujhe lgta hai k mujh se ye kasam toot jaye ge.agr mujh se ye kasam toot Gaye to Kia Mae waqaye daira e Islam se kharij ho jao ge??plzz mujhe is ka koi hull btaye,Mae bht zyada preshan hn.plz sir help me..

    • Wa Alaikum as Salam,

      First of all, friends that take you away from Allah are worst friends. You must not be accompanying them. Whether Ramadan or not, dance is supposedly immoral and you must abstain from it. But you have been harsh on yourself. You can in sha Allah make tawbah for swearing in such way and cancel/dissolve this oath, not because you will dance again, but because this act does not take you out of the fold of Islam. But if you do not cancel the oath, Allah Knows Best, it may hold, and may Allah Protect your Imaan.

      Why I said you can cancel your oath is this incident:

      A wife of Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam gave him some honey to drink. He drank it and went to another wife's home. She complined there was a stink. He Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam then said he had consumed honey and swore never to drink honey again. Allah then Revealed:

      يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ لِمَ تُحَرِّمُ مَا أَحَلَّ اللَّهُ لَكَ ۖ تَبْتَغِي مَرْضَاتَ أَزْوَاجِكَ ۚ وَاللَّهُ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ
      O Prophet, why do you prohibit [yourself from] what Allah has made lawful for you, seeking the approval of your wives? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
      قَدْ فَرَضَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ تَحِلَّةَ أَيْمَانِكُمْ ۚ وَاللَّهُ مَوْلَاكُمْ ۖ وَهُوَ الْعَلِيمُ الْحَكِيمُ
      Allah has already ordained for you [Muslims] the dissolution of your oaths. And Allah is your protector, and He is the Knowing, the Wise.
      (at Tahrim:1-2)

      This is my personal interpretation and not a fatwa from a scholar so please take heed.

      Abu Abdul Bari Editor

  3. I have done the wrong thing and took the qasam of my father!!I am felling very very guilty ..I pray and requested allah that he will long life life to my family ..Pls help me pls pls pls

  4. salaam i made a kasam i wont speak too a person that was couple years back now i want too break my oath i was forced into it can i pay donation too the poor other then feeding them please let me know thanks

  5. AOA main apney dost ko subha 3:00 utha ney ki liye mazak mazak main kasam kha lo keh ager woh na utha to main ussey kabhi baat nahi keroun gyi warna woh meri baat nahi manta to 3:00 message karney ki baat hwi thi liken usney 3:04 pey msg kiya ab main ussey baat nahi ker rahi woh keh raha hai yeah fazool kasmain hai tor do
    Main tor sakti houn?

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