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What should I do about my life?

Ashamed woman, sad woman, depressed woman

i'm a muslima teenager, who engaged foolishly into nude sending to a boyfriend and now i've repented. only for months later to find out they were leaked but not by my boyfriend. i cry everyday, people point at me calling me munafiqa... i feel like dying... i cry all night. i cant walk out freely. i dont know what to do with my life anymore.

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  1. Salam.

    Depending on where you live, you could seek the help of police in tracking down the individual and redressing the matter. As for the people taunting you, know that they are not perfect and have likely made grave mistakes as well. Ignore them(especially if they are desi people as desi culture is septic with backbiting and gossip); they don't embody the principles of Islam themselves while pathetically calling you a muafiqa despite your repentance. Remember, on the Day of Judgment, they (and the individual who leaked these photos) will be answerable to Allah (SWT) for spreading these pictures. Moving forward, keep in mind that there is a reason why Allah (SWT) has forbidden bf/gf relationships and that sharing anything wirelessly is prone to interception. I think you have learned from your experiences and are doing what is best in the eyes of Allah (SWT). Have patience, ignore the trolls, and strengthen your belief in Allah SWT by praying, dhikr, and good deeds. Eid Mubarak.

    Salam.

  2. i'm a muslima teenager, who engaged foolishly into nude sending to a boyfriend and now i've repented. only for months later to find out they were leaked but not by my boyfriend.

    You sent nude pictures to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend did not leak these pictures, how did it then.

  3. Walikum salam ,repent , make dua , b a good practicing muslima , many ppl did mistakes and later they were best muslims dont b hopeless and you can weare niqaab fr sake of Allah at the same time it will protect ur identity.

  4. it is good point that you are repenting
    believe me sister if you are repenting then Allah is with you
    you have have confidence

    ya u did foolishness
    everything has it effects
    as above you should remove you pics or mail them to remove your pics
    secondly if you have repented what others say does not matter
    people will get new gossip tomorrow
    just keep steadfast say Allah is enough for me
    hasbunallah wa ni'mal wakil
    daily

    do astaghfirullah daily
    dont do shameless acts in future or it will come back and haunt you

    better learn Quran daily
    learn hadees that is the life goal of all muslims
    if you learn daily nobody will point you out
    will they dare to point out a muslima that she is sinner?
    who dares to fight Allah

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