Where can I find a good revert Muslim man to marry?
Assalamo Alaykom Everyone,
I am a 28-year-old Moroccan girl, a good Muslim girl Alhamdulillah. I am looking for a man to marry, preferably a Revert Muslim man. How can I go about this? I've already used marriage websites to no avail, as in my experience, most men on there are not seriously looking for a life partner.
I need your advice please!
Sister
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Asalamualaykum my dear sister,
Remember that there is a solution to every problem, first and foremost. This will give you the determination to realize your dream!
I think if I were your position, I would firstly make sure that I am presenting myself as a Muslim, so that if any good man comes across your path, he is immediately aware of your beliefs. Wear your hijab and be respectful and kind to all in your presence. Try to go out more in public spaces all the while, such as libraries, grocery shopping, post office, bank, etc. so that you are visible. This way, if a man strikes up a conversation with you or vice versa, he already knows you are Muslim.
If a man seems to show interest and you like him, inform him that you are not interested in any relationship other than marriage, but that if he is open to that, he can talk to your parents. Have you parents or other Wali explain to him that he needs to revert to Islam if he wants to marry you.
I know this seems like it all might take a long time and a lot of effort, but there's no better time to start than now, and think this is a better option than going online. Now if this doesn't come to pass, you can try online again or go to your local Masjid/Mosque and ask around for someone available and suitable.
Hugs,
Nor
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