ZAWAJ.COM: Our Families by Siddiqua Haswarey

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The goal of this column is to take up family issues that are usually ignored, but are real and affecting our family structures. The articles also addresses the challenges facing the Muslim family in the modern world. Naturally, this column presents family issues in the light of the Qur'an and Sunnah.

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February 2003
Further Discussions on Polygamy
September/October 2002:
Improper Behavior or Excessive Jealousy? How to Overcome these Problems and Develop a Strong Marriage Bond
September 2002:
Surviving Infertility Through Hope and Patience
August 2002:
8 Tips on Seeking a Spouse
June 2002:
5 Pointers for Living a Happier Life
April 2002:
In-Law Relationships in Islam
March 2002:
Ties of the Womb
January 2002:
Looking at Polygyny from a Broader Perspective
November 1, 2001:
Makes Me Think
October 1, 2001:
Too Many Silent Voices
September 1, 2001:
Responses to "To My Dearest Sisters... From a Co-Wife"
Siddiqua's May 1, 2001 column on co-wivery produced a lot of responses from readers, some in favor of polygamy and some against it. We have printed a few of them here, along with Siddiqua's answers:
Response from Rita:
"It is difficult to imagine that any woman could accept it."
Response from Anonymous:
"To the man's heart, the sexual act is made ever more enjoyable."
August 1, 2001
Sincerity and Unconditional Love
July 1, 2001
The Rainbows in Our Lives
June 1, 2001
Children: Our Blessings from Allah
May 1, 2001:
To My Dearest Sisters... From a Co-Wife
April 1, 2000
What is Happening to Our Families Today?

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