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Should I go for arranged marriage or ask for love?

I am a young muslim age 16, but from a young age me and my sister were ‘promised’ to this family with boys a little older than us, I was promised to the older one who is four years older than me although I do not want to marry him and we do not get along, I tried to talk to my dad but he was oviously upset so I didn’t bring up the topic again.