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Father not agreeing to my choice of guy for marriage without any valid reasons

I have been friends with a guy for 4 years and want to marry him but my father is not agreeing to this marriage without any valid reason. He is a practising Muslim and I have done Istakhara which gave me good feelings but I can’t get married to him because I don’t have permission from my father (Wali). My mother is happy with my choice but I need my fathers approval as he is my Wali, to have a valid Nikkah/marriage.

Engaged for 10 years but can’t get married because, fiance can’t support me financially

My fiance don’t have job, can’t support me financially and I can’t get married. His family has refused marriage because of financial issue. My parents have been supporting me so far and they think that my fiance won’t be able to support me. I don’t know what to do as it’s been 10 years since we got engaged and I am tired of this situation.