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Marriage to muslim convert and disobedience to parents

I fell in love with a non muslim girl five years ago and carried our relationship till now. Now we decided to get married and she is ready to embrace Islam. But my parents are totally against this. I had tried to talk to them but they are very firm on there decision even if she converts.

He abuses me, but I can’t think of marrying anyone else

I’ve known this guy for almost 2 years. When he asked for my hand my parents refused him straight away but I didn’t understand why they were so against it in the beginning. He said if I didn’t marry him at that point, he would leave me. I started to see negative things about the guy, as he would shout and put me down so much and yell abuse at me when he was angry about something. I can’t leave him no matter what, as he’s always been sincere to me and I’ve lied to him and my family so this is partly my fault. Do you think I am doing the right thing by forcing my father to agree to this nikah as I can’t imagine being with anyone else?