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Thinking of leaving my boyfriend for religion but it’s hard – Part 2

i”ve tried several times leaving my boyfriend but i get stuck in between.i had several fights with him because i dont want to stay with him BECAUSE its a haram relationship.but no matter what he wants to stick to me n eventually im not strong enough to let him go n we end up staying together(we stay together, talk spend time, but dont commit immoral physical acts) recently i had another fight n told him’ I DONT WHAT TO DO .. i love ALLAH but i love u 2′.

Shall I stay with my husband or listen to my family and leave him?

If I leave him, I gain my family back but if I choose him then I lose my family again. He said to me we will make it work, but I’m not sure. I don’t know what I want? or don’t know what to do?

How do I stop seeing and being intimate with him?

I don’t know how to stop myself. Everytime I see him we have to be physical and I try so hard not to. I want to marry him but now he won’t but don’t understand why he won’t as he keeps avoiding the question. However, I see trouble ahead as another Muslim Man has appeared to be interested in me and I sincerely believe that he follows the faith correctly and he would marry me.