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I am a second wife and my in laws hate me and my children because I am African

The problem i have is his family. They hate me. They are religious on the outside. I moved to melbourne to be near him and since the day they met me i have been mistreated and verbally abused. I guess he never informed them i was african bcos the look on their face was pure terror

I feel like I’ve lost everything and I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know where to start, but I just need some advice. What to do if your parent’s won’t accept the guy that you want to marry because of different race, culture? But we’re both muslims, shouldn’t that be the most important thing? To be fair my mum did talk to him, but it still doesn’t work. I’m tired of praying it will work out, I left everything in Allah’s hands but ya Allah if he’s not the one for me, why is it impossible to stop thinking of him?